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Episode 211: Discovering Opportunity in Unmet Expectations
July 08, 2025 · 45 min

Summary:

In this episode, we’re having the real conversation about unmet expectations—and the choices we have in processing them. Do we dwell in disappointment, or do we discover unexpected opportunities? Without minimizing life’s real challenges, we share personal stories and honest reflections on navigating the gap between what we hoped for and what actually is.

We explore the grieving process that often comes with unmet expectations and how it’s okay to feel the weight of that gap. Then, we shift the lens to see how those very moments can hold hidden gifts. From redefining success for our children to embracing growth in ourselves, we uncover how releasing rigid expectations can open the door to joy, purpose, and connection—right here, in the now.

Resource Links:

Why we're unhappy -- the expectation gap | Nat Ware | TEDxKlagenfurt

Diane Alber’s A Little Spot Books and Supportive Materials

A Little SPOT Series – Diane Alber

Flexible Thinking Song For Kids-Think Like a Palm Tree Animation

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