Am I abusive? How can I acknowledge the truth without beating myself up? What makes a good and safe man? Dr. Andrew Bauman explains two ways to be abusive, the difference between humility and self-hatred, and how to express clean anger and fight fair.Dr. Andrew J. Bauman is the founder and director of the <a href='https://christiancc.org/'>Christian Counseling Center: For Sexual Health &amp; Trauma (CCC)</a> and has served as a mental health counselor. Also formerly a pastor, Andrew now works with men and women to bring healing and wholeness to their sexual and spiritual lives.Buy Andrew&apos;s books (paid links):<ul><li><a href='https://amzn.to/4iPN2AV'>Safe Church</a></li><li><a href='https://amzn.to/4iqLeOV'>How Not To Be An *SS</a></li><li><a href='https://amzn.to/3bkK9Zk'>The Sexually Healthy Man</a></li><li><a href='https://amzn.to/4iq6X9G'>The Psychology Of Porn</a></li><li><a href='https://amzn.to/4hyHcTp'>Stumbling Toward Wholeness</a></li></ul>Learn more about Andrew&apos;s 4-day men&apos;s workshops <a href='https://christiancc.org/program/4daymensworkshop/'>here</a>.Connect with Andrew at <a href='https://andrewjbauman.com/'>andrewjbauman.com</a>.<a rel="payment" href="https://www.husbandmaterial.com/giving">Support the show</a> Take the Husband Material Journey... <ul> <li>Step 1: Listen to this podcast or watch on <a href='https://www.youtube.com/husbandmaterial'>YouTube</a> </li> <li>Step 2: Join the private <a href='https://www.husbandmaterial.co/'>Husband Material Community</a> </li> <li>Step 3: Take the free mini-course: <a href='http://outgrowporn.com/'>How To Outgrow Porn</a> </li> <li>Step 4: Try the all-in-one program: <a href='https://www.husbandmaterial.com/academy'>Husband Material Academy</a> </li> </ul> Thanks for listening!