There is a world of difference between sharing a perspectiveand counseling someone about what they should do.Good coaching should always start from the premise thatyou are the expert on you and you and your situation,and focus on helping you uncover what works best for you.Whether you’re receiving or giving support,this spell will help you identify the approach that willopen up a curious, expansive, and empowering dialogue.Make Magic:An outside perspective can be valuable, but only if it is co-creative with your understanding and truth.If someone is telling you what to doinstead of asking thoughtful questions,they’re not respecting you and your experience.Transcript: A Spell for Eschewing Advice