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And Now We Drink

Matt Slayer
435 episodes   Last Updated: Nov 21, 24
"The Conversation at the end of the bar" with your favorite Comedians, Musicians, Writers, Actors and Adult performers. Join your host Matt Slayer every Thursday at 3:00 PM EST/12:00 PM PST for drinking and debaucherous stories.

Episodes

On this episode of “And Now We Drink,” host Matt Slayer is joined by the vibrant film star Carmela Clutch for an energizing and borderline mischievous conversation that is both entertaining and insightful. Amidst clinking glasses in a day drinking session, Carmela shares her journey into the  industry, revealing how the allure of autonomy and her spirited personality led her to an unconventional yet fulfilling career. Her candidness about the challenges and joys of her profession provides listeners with a genuine look into the life of a performer balancing both public persona and personal authenticity. The discussion takes a light-hearted turn as Carmela recalls some colorful stories from her past, including the art of flirtation and the realities of fan interactions that blend admiration with the awkward dynamics of pedestal placement. A spirited debate about vasectomies and the relief they bring to intimate encounters showcases Carmela's openness to discussing topics around  health and personal choice. Matt and Carmela's chemistry is palpable as they navigate topics ranging from travel dreams—particularly the allure of Tokyo—to the adventures they encounter within and beyond the industry. Together, they explore themes of self-growth, joy, and the complexity of human relationships with humor and authenticity, leaving listeners eager for more insider stories and reflective wisdom. With the backdrop of Los Angeles adding to the lively atmosphere, this episode offers an exhilarating glimpse into the life of one adult star unafraid to pursue pleasure, authenticity, and success on her own terms.   Cover your shame in our wares. New Merch! anwd.net/merch The Patreon is full of exclusive content and directly supports the show. patreon.com/mattslayer   Subscribe to the youtube youtube.com/andnowwedrink
In this exciting episode of “And Now We Drink,” host Matt Slayer sits down with the vibrant Leilani Li, a multi-talented performer and truth seeker, for an engaging and lively conversation that dances between the whimsical and profound. Kick back and grab your favorite drink, as the two dive into travel stories, Leilani's adventures across various continents, offering insights into different cultures and travel experiences. Leilani shares humorous and poignant anecdotes about growing up, the transformative experience of discovering oneself, and her remarkable journey through the  industry. Get ready to explore societal norms, self-discovery, and the importance of living authentically. Matt and Leilani also delve into issues such as the shifting landscape of politics, the intricacies of religious beliefs, and the often surreal nature of modern media. Join the conversation as they discuss the excitement and fears of advancements in technology, the personal evolution from a life of privacy to public empowerment, and the power of simply not giving a damn about societal judgments. Leilani emphasizes the importance of pursuing one’s passions with a fearless heart. Whether it’s a philosophical musing or a light-hearted story, this episode of “And Now We Drink” reminds us to embrace every nuance of life with a hearty toast. Tune in for a dose of humor, insight, and a touch of existential pondering. Cheers to living life on your terms!     Cover your shame in our wares. New Merch! anwd.net/merch The Patreon is full of exclusive content and directly supports the show. patreon.com/mattslayer   Subscribe to the youtube youtube.com/andnowwedrink
Welcome to a truly entertaining and unfiltered episode of And Now We Drink, hosted by the charismatic Matt Slayer, with the delightfully unconventional guests Queen Lo & Madi Cooper. Buckle up for an engaging conversation as they navigate through a tapestry of raw humor, unapologetic truths, and hilariously real-life anecdotes. Join Matt, Queen Lo & Madi as they dive into the exhilarating world of SW, exploring the fascinating dynamics within the industry, and shedding light on the often-misconceived realities of being a professional dominatrix. They share candid insights into the empowerment found within consensual BDSM relationships and the crucial importance of clear communication and consent. Their discussion, peppered with witty exchanges, touches on the intricacies of modern relationships. You'll hear their thoughts on non-monogamy, the importance of openness, and the challenges of traditional monogamous expectations. Queen Lo's personal journey from serial dating to finding balance in her present relationship is both humorous and enlightening. This episode is an exploration of identity, societal norms, and self-discovery, punctuated by laughs and unexpected turns. Queen Lo  shines as she shares her vibrant personality and unfiltered outlook on life, ensuring listeners are hooked from start to finish. If you're ready for an engaging dive into the unconventional, tune in for a truly unforgettable show!   Cover your shame in our wares. New Merch! anwd.net/merch The Patreon is full of exclusive content and directly supports the show. patreon.com/mattslayer   Subscribe to the youtube youtube.com/andnowwedrink    
Lola Fae joins Matt Slayer to share her experiences as a multifaceted performer, offering a window into her unique world, driven by a mix of enthusiasm and undying curiosity. As she joins in on the revelry, Lola discusses everything from her intriguing role as a “manic pixie dream girl”  to her love for self-discovery and healing. She delves into her creative journey, revealing the excitement of upcoming projects like “Boys Club,” which promises to challenge toxic norms and celebrate authenticity. The duo doesn't shy away from hot topics, either, as they touch on societal norms and personal evolution while sipping on their preferred beverages. Whether they're reminiscing about mind-bending experiences, discussing self-love, or navigating the complexities of modern-day dating, Lola's vibrant energy and insightful musings keep the conversation captivating. An episode not to miss, filled with laughter and raw honesty, offering an inside look at Lola's unique life philosophies and her path to self-empowerment. Cheers to a fantastic episode that'll leave you entertained and inspired. Grab your favorite drink and join Matt and Lola for a fun-filled chat that will surely energize your week!   Cover your shame in our wares. New Merch! anwd.net/merch The Patreon is full of exclusive content and directly supports the show. patreon.com/mattslayer   Subscribe to the youtube youtube.com/andnowwedrink
In this lively episode of “And Now We Drink,” host Matt Slayer sits down with guest Jay David, and the conversation veers from hilarity to insight as these two navigate a whirlwind of topics over drinks. Matt recounts his night of getting hilariously lost in Los Angeles, illustrating the all-too-relatable struggles of a night out that was a bit too wild. As the laughter flows, Jay reflects on his journey from the gaming industry, where he worked on massive titles like “Apex Legends” and “Doom 3,” into the realm of industry photography, capturing moments that transcend beyond what fans see. The duo discuss the chaos and joy of major gaming launches and event photography, sharing the intricacies and thrilling uncertainties these experiences bring. With anecdotes from major industry events and a peek into Jay's modest entry into the industry, listeners get a front-row seat to the ups and downs of these creative fields. Matt and Jay also touch on the craziness of fandoms, the importance of maintaining professionalism, and the sometimes bizarre intersection of fan interaction and media production. For anyone curious about how a career can drastically shift from digital landscapes to real-world lenses, or fans wanting a behind-the-scenes look at industry lifestyles, this episode provides laughs, lessons, and a lot of entertainment. Join Matt and Jay as they pop a cork and dive into a world where gaming and the industry surprisingly collide.   Cover your shame in our wares. New Merch! anwd.net/merch The Patreon is full of exclusive content and directly supports the show. patreon.com/mattslayer   Subscribe to the youtube youtube.com/andnowwedrink
in the latest episode of “And Now We Drink,” host Matt Slayer sits down with the vibrant and adventurous Kelsey Kane. Known for her openness and candidness, Kelsey brings her signature energy to the conversation as she shares insights into her exciting career and her zest for life. The episode dives deep into the complexities of modern relationships, navigating societal norms, and the thrilling yet challenging balance between personal desires and professional demands. Kelsey opens up about her experiences in the industry, shedding light on the realities versus the misconceptions. As they chat, Kelsey shares humorous anecdotes about past relationships and the unique dynamics of her current partnership. She emphasizes the importance of consent, communication, and the freedom to explore one's desires. Matt and Kelsey also discuss the humorous yet frustrating societal expectations placed on women when it comes to sexuality and relationships. They navigate these topics with a mix of seriousness and fun, making for an engaging and enlightening listen. Throughout the episode, Kelsey's infectious enthusiasm and sharp wit keep the conversation lively and relatable. Whether discussing her favorite food spots or sharing laughs about past shenanigans, Kelsey remains refreshingly authentic. This episode is a must-listen for anyone interested in the intersection between personal life and career, the  industry, and the search for genuine connections in a world full of pretense.     Get some personal welness supplies at  casa-anica.com use code "anwd" for 15% off at checkout       Cover your shame in our wares. New Merch! anwd.net/merch The Patreon is full of exclusive content and directly supports the show. patreon.com/mattslayer   Subscribe to the youtube youtube.com/andnowwedrink
In this episode of “And Now We Drink,” host Matt Slayer sits down with the vibrant and candid Ellie Nova for an unforgettable conversation. The chemistry between Matt and Ellie is undeniable as they delve into a diverse array of topics.  Ellie shares some hilariously awkward moments from her life, including a wild story about experimenting in Japan that might just involve a fictional cheese land. The conversation takes a deeper turn as Ellie opens up about her experiences and interests, providing a unique perspective on relationships and career dynamics. Not one to shy away from risqué topics, Ellie dives into her adventurous personal preferences, leaving you both entertained and intrigued. Her candidness about her likes and dislikes offers a raw look into her personality and experiences that is rarely shared so openly. Throughout the episode, Matt and Ellie navigate topics with humor and sincerity, touching on past parties, unexpected encounters, and everything in between. Ellie's stories about her past, including moments of introspection and growth, offer listeners insight into her journey and what makes her tick. Whether you're tuning in for the laughs, the honest discourse, or to learn a bit more about the life of Ellie Nova, this episode does not disappoint. Expect an entertaining ride full of laughter, unexpected revelations, and an occasional splash of wild storytelling that is sure to leave an impression.   Cover your shame in our wares. New Merch! anwd.net/merch The Patreon is full of exclusive content and directly supports the show. patreon.com/mattslayer   Subscribe to the youtube youtube.com/andnowwedrink
Join Matt Slayer on this riveting episode of "And Now We Drink" as he sits down with Tee Reel, an industry veteran with a fascinating backstory. Tee Reel isn't just any guest; he's a seasoned performer, a director, producer, WGA writer, and notably, the first African-American man to own a licensed and bonded talent agency in the industry. Tee and Matt dive deep into Tee's extensive career, from his early days in Cleveland to navigating the complexities of the biz world, and how he turned his experiences into a successful stint as an agent. As Tee recounts, it's not always glamorous. He shares tales of escapades at notorious Hollywood parties, industry pitfalls, and personal battles, lending a unique perspective that only someone with his tenure can provide. Tee’s candidness shines through as he opens up about past relationships, the challenges of managing a successful agency, and his strategies for staying resilient amid adversity. Listeners will be intrigued by Tee’s insights into the industry's future, his pivot into mainstream filmmaking, and the upcoming projects he's excited about. This episode is a balanced blend of humor, raw honesty, and professional wisdom, making it an invaluable listen for anyone interested in the behind-the-scenes dynamics of  entertainment and beyond. Grab a drink and tune in for Tee Reel’s unforgettable journey and sage advice.     et some personal welness supplies at  casa-anica.com use code "anwd" for 15% off at checkout       Cover your shame in our wares. New Merch! anwd.net/merch The Patreon is full of exclusive content and directly supports the show. patreon.com/mattslayer   Subscribe to the youtube youtube.com/andnowwedrink
In this lively and wildly entertaining episode of "And Now We Drink," host Matt Slayer is joined by the electrifying Megan Mistakes. Falling into a seamless, no-holds-barred conversation that spans over two hours, the duo dives into a whirlwind of topics that leave no stone unturned. Starting off with hilarious banter about technical difficulties and phone settings, they quickly segue into more profound topics, touching on conspiracy theories, societal beliefs, and the role of nefarious forces in people's lives. Megan's sharp wit and insightful takes shine through as she questions why conspiracy theories can't be more fun rather than malevolent. The discussion takes a personal turn, as Megan opens up about her therapy journey and the profound impact it has had on her life, leading to a compelling conversation about mental health within the industry. They also delve into the fascinating intersections of Megan's personal and professional worlds, exploring her ventures into camming and the nuanced challenges of maintaining work-life boundaries in a highly scrutinized field. The conversation isn't all serious, though. Megan and Matt share scandalous and laugh-out-loud recollections from their lives, including tales of chaotic parties, peculiar dating experiences, and unforgettable moments on set. Megan hilariously recounts her unofficial title as the best slapper among her friends and the unexpected turns her life has taken over the past year. As they navigate through the intricacies of relationships, career choices, and societal expectations, Megan’s unique perspective offers listeners a refreshing take on the  industry, community building, and personal integrity. Packed with humor, intellect, and raw honesty, this episode is a testament to the captivating charm and unfiltered storytelling that "And Now We Drink" fans have come to love. Tune in for an episode filled with laughter, deep dives into the human psyche, and that signature Megan Mistakes' flair that guarantees an unforgettable listening experience   Get some personal welness supplies at  casa-anica.com use code "anwd" for 15% off at checkout       Cover your shame in our wares. New Merch! anwd.net/merch The Patreon is full of exclusive content and directly supports the show. patreon.com/mattslayer   Subscribe to the youtube youtube.com/andnowwedrink
On this electrifying episode of “And Now We Drink,” host Matt Slayer welcomes the multifaceted Lev Lieben for an in-depth conversation about his journey from a faceless content creator to a thriving presence in the industry. Dive into Lev’s transformative experiences that shaped his perspectives on relationships, and personal freedom. Lev candidly discusses his initial decision to remain faceless while building his OF empire, an intriguing choice rooted in his time in the military. Discover how he navigated the complex transition from anonymity to revealing his true self, and the liberating impact it had on his life and career. Throughout the episode, Matt and Lev delve into the societal perceptions of SW and the dynamics within the industry, including the sometimes contentious divide between studio and independent creators. Lev shares his thoughts on the importance of authenticity and how creators can balance personal expression with professional boundaries. In a particularly juicy segment, Lev recounts his unique experiences working at a resort known for its swinger-friendly atmosphere, which played a pivotal role in shaping his comfort and his eventual career in the industry. The conversation also touches on the broader implications of societal norms, the challenges of maintaining a healthy relationship in the public eye, and the pitfalls of online drama within the creator community. Lev's fresh and optimistic outlook offers valuable insights and prompts a broader reflection on the industry's future. Whether you're a longtime fan or new to Lev's work, this episode is a deep dive into the reality of life behind the camera, providing a raw, unfiltered look into the personal and professional challenges of a modern content creator. Tune in for a thought-provoking discussion that blends humor, honesty, and industry expertise, only on “And Now We Drink     Get some personal welness supplies at  casa-anica.com use code "anwd" for 15% off at checkout       Cover your shame in our wares. New Merch! anwd.net/merch The Patreon is full of exclusive content and directly supports the show. patreon.com/mattslayer   Subscribe to the youtube youtube.com/andnowwedrink