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196. Will They Come Back? Navigating Panic and Distance with Clarity
April 16, 2025 · 18 min

Lit AF Relationships podcast is your resource for creating healthy relationships full of love, trust, safety, and respect. 

Ever feel like all hell breaks loose when someone pulls away? Panic. Fear. “Are they leaving me forever?!” In this episode, I answer a juicy question from Instagram about how to communicate your attachment style—especially when you're spiraling. We talk about asking for what you need (even when it feels terrifying), why that tiny request can change everything, and how a hug from my husband and a win with my boss taught me the power of speaking up. Spoiler: It’s awkward at first, but it so pays off.

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