In this episode of The So Hard Podcast, I'm sharing two real stories from men I’ve worked with who overcame performance anxiety in different ways. The first client was thrown into seven months of sexual shutdown and overthinking after a single, devastating comment from his partner—made worse by his anxious attachment style. The second, an experienced man with a rich sexual history, found himself frozen when he finally met someone who truly mattered.
You'll hear how we unpacked the root causes of their anxiety, how attachment styles can intensify sexual fear. We'll dive deep into how nervous system healing is essential for lasting change, and how vulnerability, communication, and boundaries are the real superpowers in love and intimacy.
If you’re struggling with performance anxiety, erectile dysfunction, anxious thoughts, or just want a deeper understanding of the nervous system’s role in your sex life—this episode is for you.
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