Whether during a fishing season or in the off-season, solo date nights (or trips!) allow you to get a deeper sense of confidence, self-acceptance, and personal joy - something you can carry throughout your life that no one or nothing can take away from you. What a gift!
In this episode:
I give you a ton of ideas on different hobbies and interests and how to get started.
Personal stories of how other POCFs in our community and myself do like to spend solo time.
Making time for yourself is the vehicle that helps you understand your desires, life goals, and personal values on a much deeper level.
Let's Dive In!
Hey, POCFs - Let's Connect!
> Consider this your home port: pocfpride.com
> Hang with Megan daily on IG at @megan.waldrep
> Valuable and helpful resources important to our unique lifestyle that only POCFs can understand. It's a treasure box curated just for you. Click here to join the private forum!
> Think of this as an epic group chat with besties you don't have to explain yourself to. Click here to learn more about the private chat!
> The book I wish existed when I began dating my fisherman! Partners of Commercial Fishermen Survival Guide 101: How To Go From WTF? To F*ck Yeah!
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This one is so rich that I can’t wait for you to hear it.
In this episode, Artist David Macomber shares his family's history in the commercial fishing industry in Cape May, New Jersey, and his journey into fine art. We discuss:
The creative process by acknowledging the challenges of maintaining motivation and overcoming self-doubt
How spirituality plays into his daily life and creative live
and the near-death experience that set David on a firm path as a professional artist.
Let’s Dive in!
Connect with David:
www.davidmacomber.com
@davidmacomber_art
Hey, POCFs - Let's Connect!
> Consider this your home port: pocfpride.com
> Hang with Megan daily on IG at @megan.waldrep
> Valuable and helpful resources important to our unique lifestyle that only POCFs can understand. It's a treasure box curated just for you. Click here to join the private forum!
> Think of this as an epic group chat with besties you don't have to explain yourself to. Click here to learn more about the private chat!
> The book I wish existed when I began dating my fisherman! Partners of Commercial Fishermen Survival Guide 101: How To Go From WTF? To F*ck Yeah!
Check out all of our offers here!
We have many superpowers, yet this is one many of us don't realize we have access to. Our fishermen may not because they are exhausted, fishing, or all of the above.
In this episode, we discuss:
One skill POCFs may have more than their fishermen.
How to lean into this skill.
The #1 way to gain support when you utilize this power.
Let's Dive In!
Show Resources:
PRIVATE GROUP CHAT: Our lively group text chat is a space to connect immediately and anytime you need us. Sound fun? Click here to learn more about the private chat!
EXCLUSIVE OFFERS FOR POCFS!
> *[eBOOK]* The ultimate guide for being a POCF - the book I wish existed when I began dating my fisherman! Partners of Commercial Fishermen Survival Guide 101: How To Go From WTF? To F*ck Yeah!
> [FREE] Visit the Lifestyle Blog where it all started. Our blog is a go-to resource for all things related to the Partners of Commercial Fishermen lifestyle! If you’re unsure where to start, consider this your home port. Join us at pocfpride.com
> [FREE] Don't forget to follow and check in with us on IG! I post daily in Stories and share funny, relatable, and informative Reels to connect us to our unique and beautiful lifestyle. Join me at @megan.waldrep
> [JOIN] The POCF Private Forum delivers valuable and helpful resources important to our unique lifestyle monthly. You can also connect with other like-minded POCFs worldwide to learn about their experience, ask questions, and get personalized support. It's a treasure box curated just for you. Click here to join the private forum!
Check out all of our offers here!
Eating healthy can be challenging when you're on the go or deciding what to make for your fisherman (and their crew) for the season. A recent road trip inspired this one, and I hope this helps make food shopping and prepping a lot easier for you!
In this episode, we discuss:
- Best healthy meals to take along or send aboard.
- Foods that keep fresh for up to 3-5 days in the cooler or fridge.
- Easy meal combinations for everything you make.
*A complete list will be available to Private Forum members for November. :) If you'd like to join, check out the link below!
Let's Dive in!
EXCLUSIVE OFFERS FOR POCFS!
> [JOIN] The POCF Private Forum delivers valuable and helpful resources important to our unique lifestyle monthly. It's a treasure box curated just for you. Click here to join the private forum!
> *[eBOOK]* The ultimate guide for being a POCF - the book I wish existed when I began dating my fisherman! Partners of Commercial Fishermen Survival Guide 101: How To Go From WTF? To F*ck Yeah!
> [FREE] Visit the Lifestyle Blog where it all started. Our blog is a go-to resource for all things related to the Partners of Commercial Fishermen lifestyle! If you’re unsure where to start, consider this your home port. Join us at pocfpride.com
> [FREE] Don't forget to follow and check in with us on IG! I post daily in Stories and share funny, relatable, and informative Reels to connect us to our unique and beautiful lifestyle. Join me at @megan.waldrep
> [JOIN] If you're seeking real-time support from people who understand what you're going through, we’ve got you! Our lively group text chat is a space you can connect immediately and anytime you need us. Sound fun? Click here to learn more about the private chat!
This was inspired by a DM I received that said, “Hi! I just wanted some advice because I have been with my boyfriend for only three months (and he leaves for Alaska soon)…I just don't know how to deal with it...Do you know if there are any other apps that I can use or what else I can do?"
In this episode, I share:
- direct ways to communicate with your fisherman
- indirect ways to feel connected
- the one advantage we have as POCFs that other relationships lack.
Let's Dive In!
EXCLUSIVE OFFERS FOR POCFS!
> [FREE] Visit the Lifestyle Blog where it all started. Our blog is a go-to resource for all things related to the Partners of Commercial Fishermen lifestyle! If you’re unsure where to start, consider this your home port. Join us at pocfpride.com
> [FREE] Don't forget to follow and check in with us on IG! I post daily in Stories and share funny, relatable, and informative Reels to connect us to our unique and beautiful lifestyle. Join me at @megan.waldrep
> *[eBOOK]* The ultimate guide for being a POCF - the book I wish existed when I began dating my fisherman! Partners of Commercial Fishermen Survival Guide 101: How To Go From WTF? To F*ck Yeah!
> [JOIN] The POCF Private Forum delivers valuable and helpful resources important to our unique lifestyle monthly. You can also connect with other like-minded POCFs worldwide to learn about their experience, ask questions, and get personalized support. It's a treasure box curated just for you. Click here to join the private forum!
> [JOIN] If you're seeking real-time support from people who understand what you're going through, we’ve got you! Our lively group text chat is a space you can connect immediately, and anytime you need us. Sound fun? Click here to learn more about the private chat!
This lifestyle can stir up some BIG feelings that can sometimes show up in strange ways. Miscommunication can quickly lead to resentment if not addressed. If you’re feeling this or felt this, you’re not alone!
In this episode, I share 3 ways to fix it by discussing:
Three common scenarios between partners of commercial fishermen and their fishermen
Conversation prompts to help you discuss challenges with your partner in healthy, productive ways.
The one resource that will help you, no matter what phase of the season or relationship you are in.
Let’s Dive In!
EXCLUSIVE OFFERS FOR POCFS!
> *[eBOOK]* The ultimate guide for being a POCF - the book I wish existed when I began dating my fisherman! Partners of Commercial Fishermen Survival Guide 101: How To Go From WTF? To F*ck Yeah!
> [FREE] Visit the Lifestyle Blog where it all started. Our blog is a go-to resource for all things related to the Partners of Commercial Fishermen lifestyle! If you’re unsure where to start, consider this your home port. Join us at pocfpride.com
> [FREE] Don't forget to follow and check in with us on IG! I post daily in Stories and share funny, relatable, and informative Reels to connect us to our unique and beautiful lifestyle. Join me at @megan.waldrep
> [JOIN] The POCF Private Forum delivers valuable and helpful resources important to our unique lifestyle monthly. You can also connect with other like-minded POCFs worldwide to learn about their experience, ask questions, and get personalized support. It's a treasure box curated just for you. Click here to join the private forum!
> [JOIN] If you're seeking real-time support from people who understand what you're going through, we’ve got you! Our lively group text chat is a space you can connect immediately, and anytime you need us. Sound fun? Click here to learn more about the private chat!
Enter to Win Scholarships from Guy Cotten & Partners of Commercial Fishermen!
We're giving $500 scholarships to 4 students and 1-year memberships to the Partners of Commercial Fishermen Forum to 4 POCFs. POCF winners will also receive access to private group chat, a one-year access to private podcasts (launching 2025), a one-year access to the private newsletter (launching 2025), 1 POCF Survival Guide, and 1 POCF Pride T-shirt.
Just fill out this form, and you will be automatically entered to win! Winners are to be announced on 10/10/24 through Instagram stories and emails. Thanks for your interest, and good luck!
>>> Enter to win here! https://forms.gle/UPKHmZEPdtw5JPKt9
Did you know you’re already advocating for your fishery and don’t even know it? One of the most significant support systems for commercial fishermen is the partners. Not only do we take care of “shoreside duties,” but we (arguably) have more access to help protect our fisheries from regulations without merit (and I know you know what I’m talking about!).
In this episode, I discuss easy ways to be proactive in your fishery if you choose to. I spoke with several Partners of Commercial Fishermen about what they do or have done to create a presence in political meetings and help spread the word that wild-caught seafood is essential locally and globally.
You have significant, influential power that can harnessed in the commercial fishing industry, and in this episode, I discuss how to do it. Let's Dive In!
Show Resources:
POCF Science Writer Danielle Hall on Why Fishermen Need to be Heard To Help The Environment Episode 48
EXCLUSIVE OFFERS FOR POCFS!
> *[eBOOK]* The ultimate guide for being a POCF - the book I wish existed when I began dating my fisherman! Partners of Commercial Fishermen Survival Guide 101: How To Go From WTF? To F*ck Yeah!
> [FREE] Visit the Lifestyle Blog where it all started. Our blog is a go-to resource for all things related to the Partners of Commercial Fishermen lifestyle! If you're unsure where to start, consider this your home port. Join us at pocfpride.com
> [FREE] Don't forget to follow and check in with us on IG! I post daily in Stories and share funny, relatable, and informative Reels to connect us to our unique and beautiful lifestyle. Join me at @megan.waldrep
> [JOIN] The POCF Private Forum delivers valuable and helpful resources important to our unique lifestyle monthly. You can also connect with other like-minded POCFs worldwide to learn about their experience, ask questions, and get personalized support. It's a treasure box curated just for you. Click here to join the private forum!
> [JOIN] If you're seeking real-time support from people who understand what you're going through, we’ve got you! Our lively group text chat is a space you can connect immediately, and anytime you need us. Sound fun? Click here to learn more about the private chat!
Enter to Win Scholarships from Guy Cotten & Partners of Commercial Fishermen!
We're giving $500 scholarships to 4 students and 1-year memberships to the Partners of Commercial Fishermen Forum to 4 POCFs. POCF winners will also receive access to private group chat, a one-year access to private podcasts (launching 2025), a one-year access to the private newsletter (launching 2025), 1 POCF Survival Guide, and 1 POCF Pride T-shirt.
Just fill out this form, and you will be automatically entered to win! Winners will be announced on 10/10/24 through Instagram stories and emails. Thanks for your interest, and good luck!
>>> Enter to win here! https://forms.gle/UPKHmZEPdtw5JPKt9
In this episode, we discuss your major influential power that can be harnessed in the commercial fishing industry and how to do it!
Since starting this community in 2019, speaking to others about our community has been a big highlight for me. Today, I share the biggest takeaways from the recent Ocean Innovation Conference and NC EcoTech summit in Wilmington, NC, our most significant influence as POCFs and fishermen, and why sharing about our lives is essential to preserving the industry. Let's dive in!
EXCLUSIVE OFFERS FOR POCFS!
> *[eBOOK]* The ultimate guide for being a POCF - the book I wish existed when I began dating my fisherman! Partners of Commercial Fishermen Survival Guide 101: How To Go From WTF? To F*ck Yeah!
> [FREE] Visit the Lifestyle Blog where it all started. Our blog is a go-to resource for all things related to the Partners of Commercial Fishermen lifestyle! If you're unsure where to start, consider this your home port. Join us at pocfpride.com
> [FREE] Don't forget to follow and check in with us on IG! I post daily in Stories and share funny, relatable, and informative Reels to connect us to our unique and beautiful lifestyle. Join me at @megan.waldrep
> [JOIN] The POCF Private Forum delivers valuable and helpful resources essential to our unique lifestyle monthly. You can also connect with other like-minded POCFs worldwide to learn about their experience, ask questions, and get personalized support. It's a treasure box curated just for you. Click here to join the private forum!
> [JOIN] If you're seeking real-time support from people who understand what you're going through, we've got you! Our lively group text chat allows you to connect immediately and anytime you need us. Sound fun? Click here to learn more about the private chat!
While in California recently to spend extra time with Chris and help him prep for spiny lobster season, I seriously considered fishing with him this season for about 5.5 hours.
In this episode, I share:
Advice from POCFs in our community about why working alongside their fisherman was a great decision for them (and reasons to consider doing it, too).
The POV of a female fisherman who is co-captaining with her partner and the challenges she recently experienced.
And the importance of every POCF, whether you're a co-captain, "shoreside" captain, stay-at-home parent, or in a new long-distance relationship.
Let's Dive In!
Show Resources:
Private Group Chat: If you're seeking real-time support from people who understand what you're going through, we’ve got you! Our lively group text chat is a space you can connect immediately and anytime you need us. Sound fun? Click here to learn more about the private chat!
MORE EXCLUSIVE OFFERS FOR POCFS!
> *[eBOOK]* The ultimate guide for being a POCF - the book I wish existed when I began dating my fisherman! Partners of Commercial Fishermen Survival Guide 101: How To Go From WTF? To F*ck Yeah!
> [FREE] Visit the Lifestyle Blog where it all started. Our blog is a go-to resource for all things related to the Partners of Commercial Fishermen lifestyle! If you’re unsure where to start, consider this your home port. Join us at pocfpride.com
> [JOIN] The POCF Private Forum delivers valuable and helpful resources important to our unique lifestyle monthly. You can also connect with other like-minded POCFs worldwide to learn about their experience, ask questions, and get personalized support. It's a treasure box curated just for you. Click here to join the private forum!
Check out all of our offers here!
Returning to my solo POCF life after traveling with my fisherman to his fishery in California wasn’t as easy as it had been in the past, and it almost felt daunting. How did I do it before? How will I get through this long season? I felt the inklings of depression coming on, if I’m being honest.
Thankfully, I remembered the advice I’d gotten from POCFs and personal experience, and I went through each tip like a mental checklist to recalibrate myself back to life. In this episode, I share those exact tips that helped me so that it may help you get back to your independent POCF life, too! We got this.
Let’s Dive In!
Show Resources:
Rom-com books about Commercial Fishing Couples by Tessa Bailey:
It Happened One Summer
Hook, Line, and Sinker
Private Group Chat for POCFs: If you're seeking real-time support from people who understand what you're going through, we’ve got you! Our lively group text chat is a space you can connect immediately and anytime you need us. Sound fun? Click here to learn more about the private chat!
MORE EXCLUSIVE OFFERS FOR POCFS!
> *[eBOOK]* The ultimate guide for being a POCF - the book I wish existed when I began dating my fisherman! Partners of Commercial Fishermen Survival Guide 101: How To Go From WTF? To F*ck Yeah!
> [FREE] Visit the Lifestyle Blog where it all started. Our blog is a go-to resource for all things related to the Partners of Commercial Fishermen lifestyle! If you’re unsure where to start, consider this your home port. Join us at pocfpride.com
> [JOIN] The POCF Private Forum delivers valuable and helpful resources important to our unique lifestyle monthly. You can also connect with other like-minded POCFs worldwide to learn about their experience, ask questions, and get personalized support. It's a treasure box curated just for you. Click here to join the private forum!
Check out all of our offers here!