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Send us a textUnmasking the invisible prison we build around ourselves, Rhonda Britten shares her powerful Fearless Living methodology that's transformed thousands of lives worldwide. In this deeply personal conversation, Britten reveals how unconscious "core triggers" established early in our lives create patterns of fear-based behavior that sabotage our relationships, careers, and personal fulfillment - often without our awareness.Drawing from her own extraordinary journey of resilience following childhood trauma, Britten explains how she discovered that her essential nature was authenticity - the very quality she had suppressed for decades while trying to belong. She walks us through her transformative framework including the Wheel of Fear, essential natures, proactive behaviors, and the path to wholeness that allows us to access our authentic selves without effort.What makes this episode particularly valuable is Britten's practical approach to breaking free from fear. Her "Stretch, Risk or Die" tool helps clarify exactly why we procrastinate on specific tasks and how to move forward with self-compassion instead of judgment. She emphasizes that confidence doesn't precede action - it's the result of taking risks and acknowledging our courage along the way.The most powerful takeaway? "There is nothing wrong with you, it's just fear." This simple but profound reframe offers a compassionate perspective that can transform how you view your challenges. Whether you're struggling with relationships, career decisions, or personal growth, Britten's methodology provides a clear path from fear to freedom.Subscribe to The Reignite Resilience Thinkletter Support the showSubscribe to Our Weekly ThinkLetter https://reigniteresilience.com/Thinkletter/FacebookInstagramMagical Mornings JournalDisclaimer: The information provided in this podcast is for general informational purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. The co-hosts of this podcast are not medical professionals. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on this podcast. Reliance on any information provided by the podcast hosts or guests is solely at your own risk.Pamela Cass is a licensed broker with Kentwood Real EstateNatalie Davis is a licensed broker with Keller Williams Realty Downtown, LLC

Send us a textImagine witnessing your father murder your mother and then take his own life—at just fourteen years old. For Emmy Award winner and master coach Rhonda Britten, this unthinkable tragedy became the crucible that eventually forged her life's work helping others break free from the hidden grip of fear.In this raw and transformative episode, Rhonda shares how this devastating childhood trauma led to years of alcoholism, multiple DUIs, and three suicide attempts. The turning point? A simple calendar and gold stars—giving herself credit for anything worth living for, one day at a time. This humble beginning launched her journey toward creating the Fearless Living Institute and developing groundbreaking methods that have helped thousands reclaim their lives.Rhonda reveals that most of us don't recognize fear's control over our lives. Those behaviors we label as character flaws—people-pleasing, procrastination, perfectionism, comparing, judging—are actually fear responses. Through her revolutionary "Wheel of Fear" framework, she demonstrates how our core fears (formed by age seven) trigger responses that keep us trapped in self-defeating cycles.What makes this conversation particularly powerful is Rhonda's emphasis on awareness rather than elimination. Fear is part of our neurobiology—even passed down through DNA—but by relabeling these behaviors as fear responses rather than personal failings, we create space for new possibilities. The path to resilience isn't about eliminating fear, but understanding it so deeply it no longer controls your choices.Ready to discover your own hidden fear patterns and break free from what's holding you back? This episode will forever change how you view your struggles and provide practical tools to jump from your "Wheel of Fear" to your "Wheel of Freedom." Your past doesn't define you—but understanding it might be the key to your future.Subscribe to The Reignite Resilience Thinkletter Support the showSubscribe to Our Weekly ThinkLetter https://reigniteresilience.com/Thinkletter/FacebookInstagramMagical Mornings JournalDisclaimer: The information provided in this podcast is for general informational purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. The co-hosts of this podcast are not medical professionals. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on this podcast. Reliance on any information provided by the podcast hosts or guests is solely at your own risk.Pamela Cass is a licensed broker with Kentwood Real EstateNatalie Davis is a licensed broker with Keller Williams Realty Downtown, LLC

Send us a textSubscribe to The Reignite Resilience Thinkletter Support the showSubscribe to Our Weekly ThinkLetter https://reigniteresilience.com/Thinkletter/FacebookInstagramMagical Mornings JournalDisclaimer: The information provided in this podcast is for general informational purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. The co-hosts of this podcast are not medical professionals. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on this podcast. Reliance on any information provided by the podcast hosts or guests is solely at your own risk.Pamela Cass is a licensed broker with Kentwood Real EstateNatalie Davis is a licensed broker with Keller Williams Realty Downtown, LLC

Send us a textEver wonder what happens when your life's passion, skills, financial needs, and the world's demands perfectly intersect? Jessica knows firsthand. After journeying from personal assistant to billionaires, to English teacher in Korea, to school counselor and therapist, she finally discovered her "ikigai" – the Japanese concept for purpose – in the most unexpected place: mortgage lending.What makes Jessica's story so compelling isn't just her career pivot. It's how she transformed her own struggles into strengths. After experiencing the stress and confusion of buying her own home, she committed to creating a "low-stress" approach to mortgages that draws directly from her therapy background. Instead of hiding her expertise, she leverages it to create calm within an inherently anxious process.When a car accident left Jessica with a concussion and lingering cognitive challenges, she faced her biggest resilience test. Rather than hiding her vulnerability, she assembled what she calls her "executive board" of mentors and supporters. Through neuropsychological testing and innovative treatments like rapid resolution therapy (a form of hypnotherapy), she found ways to heal while continuing to excel professionally.Jessica's practical wisdom about managing anxious thoughts offers tools for everyone. She describes how mindfully observing our thoughts can help identify unhealthy patterns and create new neural pathways. By approaching our challenges with compassion rather than judgment, we can transform our relationship with stress.The most powerful takeaway? We don't have to suffer alone. Whether you're seeking career fulfillment, managing anxiety, or recovering from trauma, Jessica's journey reminds us that combining self-awareness, appropriate support, and purposeful work creates the foundation for true resilience. Listen now to discover how to protect your peace while pursuing your purpose.Subscribe to The Reignite Resilience Thinkletter Support the showSubscribe to Our Weekly ThinkLetter https://reigniteresilience.com/Thinkletter/FacebookInstagramMagical Mornings JournalDisclaimer: The information provided in this podcast is for general informational purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. The co-hosts of this podcast are not medical professionals. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on this podcast. Reliance on any information provided by the podcast hosts or guests is solely at your own risk.Pamela Cass is a licensed broker with Kentwood Real EstateNatalie Davis is a licensed broker with Keller Williams Realty Downtown, LLC

Send us a textMatthew Lesko—you might remember him from his question mark suits and energetic infomercials—has transformed from a $20,000-per-client business consultant to a passionate advocate helping everyday Americans access billions in free government resources. His mission now? Building a community where people help each other navigate the complex world of grants, subsidies, and assistance programs.The economic reality driving his work is stark. America has both more millionaires than any other developed nation and the highest poverty rate (17.2%) among wealthy countries. Over the past 50 years, wages for the bottom 90% of Americans have grown just 30% while inflation has soared 350%—a crushing disparity explaining why half of Americans can't handle a surprise $500 expense.What makes this conversation genuinely eye-opening is the sheer range of available resources most people never discover. Did you know there are 51 healthcare programs that will pay you to train for high-demand jobs, cover your transportation and childcare costs, and even pay for your certification exams? Or that Habitat for Humanity offers homes at half price with zero-percent interest mortgages? From $100,000 grants for making and selling ice cream to programs offering free laptop computers, these opportunities exist in every community—if you know where to look.Lesko's practical advice centers on two powerful strategies: find programs to help pay for expenses you already have, and discover legitimate opportunities to increase your income. His community at LetsGoHelp.com not only shares information but distributes approximately $50,000-$70,000 monthly in direct grants to members, including free laptops and emergency assistance for car repairs or housing.The most valuable takeaway might be Lesko's approach to life itself: follow your passion, maintain your sense of humor, and remember that for every problem you face, there's likely free help available from people who've solved it before. Visit FindHelp.org or your local library to discover resources in your area, and remember—the government distributes nearly $19,000 in grant money per adult annually. Isn't it time you claimed your share?Subscribe to The Reignite Resilience Thinkletter Support the showSubscribe to Our Weekly ThinkLetter https://reigniteresilience.com/Thinkletter/FacebookInstagramMagical Mornings JournalDisclaimer: The information provided in this podcast is for general informational purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. The co-hosts of this podcast are not medical professionals. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on this podcast. Reliance on any information provided by the podcast hosts or guests is solely at your own risk.Pamela Cass is a licensed broker with Kentwood Real EstateNatalie Davis is a licensed broker with Keller Williams Realty Downtown, LLC

Send us a textMatthew Lesko bursts onto the Reignite Resilience podcast with the same vibrant energy that made him famous as "The Question Mark Guy" from those unforgettable infomercials. Now 81 years young and sporting his signature colorful blazer covered in smiley faces, Lesko drops wisdom bombs that challenge everything we've been taught about success."If I knew being 81 was going to be this much fun, I would have got here a lot faster," he declares, revealing that his boundless vitality comes from one counter-intuitive source: giving. After decades spent helping Americans access billions in government grants and resources, Lesko has discovered that giving is actually the most selfish act possible—because nothing generates more personal joy.The conversation takes a fascinating turn as Lesko breaks down our economy into two distinct segments: the 60% driven by capitalism that wants to take your money, and the 40% "community society" sector (government and nonprofits) designed to give money away. Most people never tap into this second sector because they don't know how to find it. Using practical tools like FindHelp.org, Lesko demonstrates how listeners can discover thousands of organizations offering financial assistance in their own zip codes.What truly sets this episode apart is Lesko's passionate belief in authenticity. After years of trying to follow other people's formulas for success—wearing Armani suits and starting businesses that failed—he realized that resilience can only come when you're doing something your heart truly desires. "You're a petunia or you're a rose," he explains. "The hard part in life is figuring out which one you are, and you only do that through trial and error while listening to your heart."Ready to discover the hidden resources available to you and embrace what makes you uniquely qualified to help others? Subscribe now and learn why your "weird" qualities might actually be your greatest assets.Support the showSubscribe to Our Weekly ThinkLetter https://reigniteresilience.com/Thinkletter/FacebookInstagramMagical Mornings JournalDisclaimer: The information provided in this podcast is for general informational purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. The co-hosts of this podcast are not medical professionals. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on this podcast. Reliance on any information provided by the podcast hosts or guests is solely at your own risk.Pamela Cass is a licensed broker with Kentwood Real EstateNatalie Davis is a licensed broker with Keller Williams Realty Downtown, LLC

Send us a textThis episode explores the transformative journey of reigniting passion and resilience within ourselves. With heartfelt stories and deep insights, we discuss how emotions influence our paths and the power of mentorship in personal growth. • Discussing the feelings of depletion we all face • The vital role of emotions in healing and renewal • Strategies for reigniting passion and enthusiasm • Exploring the dual energies of inspiration and desperation • The profound impact of mentorship and support • Emphasizing self-acceptance and the uniqueness of individual journeys If you are interested in learning more about what's happening in the world of Reignite Resilience, head on over to reigniteresilience.com. Subscribe to The Reignite Resilience Thinkletter Support the showSubscribe to Our Weekly ThinkLetter https://reigniteresilience.com/Thinkletter/FacebookInstagramMagical Mornings JournalDisclaimer: The information provided in this podcast is for general informational purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. The co-hosts of this podcast are not medical professionals. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on this podcast. Reliance on any information provided by the podcast hosts or guests is solely at your own risk.Pamela Cass is a licensed broker with Kentwood Real EstateNatalie Davis is a licensed broker with Keller Williams Realty Downtown, LLC

Send us a textThis week, we explore the transformative concept of resilience with our guest, Victoria Rader. Her journey of loss and rediscovery is both inspiring and enlightening, showcasing the beauty of surrender in reconnecting with joy. • Victoria's personal story of resilience through significant loss • The importance of surrendering to life's challenges • Techniques for reigniting passion: energy clearing and emotional healing • Merging practicality with spiritual growth • The power of community and support in healing • Understanding the connection between grief and joy We hope you take the insights shared today and apply them to fuel your own journey toward resilience and joy.Subscribe to The Reignite Resilience Thinkletter Support the showSubscribe to Our Weekly ThinkLetter https://reigniteresilience.com/Thinkletter/FacebookInstagramMagical Mornings JournalDisclaimer: The information provided in this podcast is for general informational purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. The co-hosts of this podcast are not medical professionals. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on this podcast. Reliance on any information provided by the podcast hosts or guests is solely at your own risk.Pamela Cass is a licensed broker with Kentwood Real EstateNatalie Davis is a licensed broker with Keller Williams Realty Downtown, LLC

Send us a textAmidst the complex tapestry of organized religion, many of us have grappled with balancing our true selves with the personas expected within our spiritual communities. Picture this: you walk into a place of worship, the weight of expectations heavy on your shoulders, and you feel compelled to display a "church persona" that doesn't quite fit. Together, we untangle this intricate dance of vulnerability and authenticity, where financial ties and communal expectations can sometimes stifle honesty. Through heartfelt stories and shared experiences, we explore how to embrace our genuine selves while navigating the structures of religious life. It's a journey of acknowledging the dualities of spiritual communities, where comfort and conflict often coexist.Joining us is Patrick Doyle, whose compelling work "Death of a Thousand Cuts" sheds light on the subtle, yet devastating, nature of emotional abuse within spiritual communities. Patrick's insights guide us through the often-overlooked terrain of emotional harm, illustrating how small acts can leave deep scars. He shares his profound belief in trusting one's instincts and taking brave steps towards change, offering hope through his online community, Pathway to Hope. As we converse about his principles-driven writing and his dedication to supporting women facing abuse, Patrick's wisdom becomes a beacon for those seeking true freedom and healing. Stay tuned for more sessions that promise to tackle vital topics like addiction, drawing from Patrick's rich reservoir of experience.Subscribe to The Reignite Resilience Thinkletter Support the showSubscribe to Our Weekly ThinkLetter https://reigniteresilience.com/Thinkletter/FacebookInstagramMagical Mornings JournalDisclaimer: The information provided in this podcast is for general informational purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. The co-hosts of this podcast are not medical professionals. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on this podcast. Reliance on any information provided by the podcast hosts or guests is solely at your own risk.Pamela Cass is a licensed broker with Kentwood Real EstateNatalie Davis is a licensed broker with Keller Williams Realty Downtown, LLC

Send us a textWhat happens when you grow up in an abusive, alcoholic household and manage to transform that pain into a powerful force for healing others? Join us as we sit down with Patrick Doyle, a remarkable expert in emotional abuse recovery and addiction counseling. Through his personal story, Patrick reveals how he overcame a turbulent childhood and internal struggles to become a guiding light for others seeking recovery. His journey, filled with resilience and passion, serves as a testament to the human spirit's capacity to heal and thrive despite overwhelming odds.Childhood trauma often weaves deep-seated beliefs of worthlessness and inadequacy into our psyche, influencing our behaviors and choices. Patrick shares his compelling narrative, moving from a youth with misguided ambitions to a respected counselor in the Army. He passionately discusses confronting and recognizing trauma, emphasizing the critical need for safe, non-judgmental environments that foster healing and transformation. Patrick's insights highlight how the presence of compassionate support can empower us to face our deepest pains and find peace within ourselves.How do religion and cultural history shape our perceptions of self-worth? This episode also takes a thought-provoking look at the struggle to maintain personal authenticity amid religious dogma. Through personal reflections and the inspiring story of Eugene, a pastor who chose community over conformity, we explore the impact of rigid beliefs on identity and emotional well-being. Discover how prioritizing authentic connections in spiritual communities can lead to genuine growth and flourishing relationships, challenging traditional structures and fostering an environment where everyone feels valued and supported.Subscribe to The Reignite Resilience Thinkletter Support the showSubscribe to Our Weekly ThinkLetter https://reigniteresilience.com/Thinkletter/FacebookInstagramMagical Mornings JournalDisclaimer: The information provided in this podcast is for general informational purposes only and is not intended as a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. The co-hosts of this podcast are not medical professionals. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have regarding a medical condition. Never disregard professional medical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard on this podcast. Reliance on any information provided by the podcast hosts or guests is solely at your own risk.Pamela Cass is a licensed broker with Kentwood Real EstateNatalie Davis is a licensed broker with Keller Williams Realty Downtown, LLC