At GASP 2025 this year, we were given the opportunity to host, and record, a Tops Roundtable. Featuring our own BigGirlSpanker, returning Guest Mr. Ben, returning guest Miss Bernadette, and newcomer to the podcast but veteran to the community, CallMeMissMeg. We had some initial questions and allowed questions from the audience and the Tops to respond spontaneously. We had a great discussion on all things related to Topping, discussion on setting scenes, communication in scenes, handling disappointment, learning and expanding skills, and more. What you will hear has been minimally edited, to bring you as close as possible to the live recording at GASP. We hope you will enjoy the discussion. If you have additional questions you would like us to address in the future, please send us a message at https://www.spankopodcast.com/contact/ and will will try our best to answer you in a future episode.

Welcome back to RFTB, the only dating advice show where we talk about eating ants and how they're kinda sour! We're joined this week by a returning champ - streamer, podcaster, writer, and lovely person Libby Watson! We talk about Libby's new podcast What's All This Then, ants, Crunchie Bars, and then it's your questions babyyyy:   Libby questions | Friend is dating a guy who really sucks and won't stop talking about Ron Paul | Update on the friend who ghosted you question from a couple eps ago Thanks again to Libby for joining us, find her on Twitch @libtron and check out her new show What's All This Then it gets the Dono stamp of approval! Certified!    And thank you for tuning in! You can support the show and get a bonus episode each week at Patreon.com/rftb as well as our continuing Frasier series, Discord access, stickers, and more that's Patreon.com/rftb!

Our subject matter experts and hosts, Haley McNamara (SVP at NCOSE) and Dani Pinter (SVP at the NCOSE Law Center), provide insights and reactions to the recent verdict results from the Diddy trial as well as the memo about the Epstein file that was release by the Department of Justice. Both of these outcomes leave us with a lot of frustration and very few answers. The lack of understanding of sex trafficking in our culture was reflected in the jury’s decision in the Diddy trial. Also, the efforts to hide the findings in the Epstein file are on full display as people on all sides of the political spectrum demand answers. Haley and Dani give us a detailed and insightful look into these developments. Learn more about Sex Trafficking: https://endsexualexploitation.org/issues/sex-trafficking/   Read our press statement about the recent DOJ memo regarding the Epstein case: https://endsexualexploitation.org/articles/epstein-case-illustrates-need-for-sex-buyer-accountability/  

I’m so pleased to speak to Donna Dia, the founder of the Beauty Beat, the UK’s only luxury beauty event for women of colour on today's episode of Period Story podcast. In this episode, Donna shares: Why having a very light period and being able to wear white jeans isn’t always a good thing How a thin uterine lining led to fertility complications How a routine D&C after a missed miscarriage led to Asherman’s syndrome The research she did to understand Asherman’s The long and traumatic journey, including multiple surgeries, to help her uterine lining grow How her fertility journey lead to the Beauty BeatWhy the Beauty Beat is a dedicated event for women of colour and Black beauty  The why behind THEE Beauty Beat goody bagAnd of course, the story of her first period Donna says that it’s valuable to learn about your gynaecological health, whether you have a light or heavy period, so that you can advocate for yourself and be the champion of your health. Thank you, Donna!Get in touch with Donna:TikTokInstagram The Beauty Beat Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week, we celebrated International Kissing Day by answering listener questions about kissing! “We Should Make Out” | Hormone Changes | Kissing Men | Consent-Asks | Feeling Overwhelmed | Toys & Practice | Sexual Stimulation Credits:Music by PROTODOMEArtwork by Addison FinchBecome a patron to support the show and get access to our private Discord, monthly bonus episodes, and your name mentioned on the show.  

True intimacy requires the freedom to be ourselves in marriage. We explore what it means to create space where both partners feel safe, seen, respected, and supported throughout all seasons of life together.• Creating emotional freedom by feeling safe to make mistakes, have opinions, and share feelings without judgment• Physical freedom in maintaining personal friendships, self-care, and autonomy within partnership• Sexual freedom to communicate desires, boundaries, and curiosities without shame• Spiritual freedom to explore faith and values both individually and as a couple• Using the powerful question "Tell me more about that" to foster understanding and connection• Practicing grace over judgment and celebrating each other's individuality• Giving each other permission to evolve, grow, and make mistakesJoin us for a special workshop on July 16th on "How to Stop Compromising to Get More of What You Want in Your Relationship." Sign up at www.monicatanner.com/stopcompromising to attend live or receive the recording.Send us a text

Despite a serious lack of air conditioning, Shayla reads the final part of the Drive-In Sissy saga.Check out all our great audios here:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Clips4Sale⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ( https://clips4sale.com/143281/candy-apple-press/cid3af2f5692e2092a35d41ae0416)

In today's episode, I'm discussingsomething I see constantly in my therapy practice - attachment styles and how they profoundly impact our intimate relationships. As this topic becomes increasingly mainstream, I want to help you understand what your attachment style means for your relationships and, most importantly, how you can develop healthier patterns.In this episode, you'll discover:The four main attachment styles (secure, anxious, avoidant, and disorganized) and how they develop from our earliest relationshipsReal-world examples of how attachment styles show up in adult relationships, from the partner who panics when their spouse is 10 minutes late to the one who never shares their feelingsHow to develop an "earned secure attachment" - the gold standard for healthy relationships, regardless of your starting pointThe encouraging truth about neuroplasticity and how your attachment style can change with awareness and the right supportWhether you're struggling to understand why your relationships follow certain patterns or you're simply curious about improving your connection with your partner, this episode offers practical insights and hope for positive change. As someone who's helped countless couples navigate these waters, I can tell you that understanding attachment styles is often the first step toward profound relationship transformation.Join me for this important conversation about making your relationships safer, stronger, and more fulfilling. Remember, we're all in this together, and there's always hope for positive change.TAKE ACTION:Check out my complete program "From Bickering & Escalating to Connecting & Loving" for more in-depth guidance: https://www.toddcreagertraining.com/loving-connecting-masterclassTodd Creager, LCSW, LMFTTodd is a sex expert and therapist in Huntington Beach.  He provides relationship coaching to couples throughout the world and in Orange County including Irvine, Newport Beach, Corona del Mar, Laguna Beach, Seal Beach and Long Beach.  (714) 848-2288.You can find more tips and resources from Todd Creager at:  https://toddcreager.com  Secrets to a Sexy Marriage:  https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/sexy-marriage-secrets7 Ways to Divorce Proof Your Marriage: https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/optin-DPYMBetter Sex in Midlife and beyond https://toddcreager.kartra.com/page/bettersexinmidlife JOIN TODD ON SOCIAL:✅  Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/RelationshipBreakthrough✅  Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/todd_creager/✅  LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/toddcreager

Breath is one of the simplest, most powerful tools you have for building intimacy—and you already carry it with you.  In this episode, Francie shares how breath work can shift you from stress into presence, helping you connect more deeply with your body, your husband, and the moment. Whether it’s daily grounding or in-the-moment pleasure, this episode gives you practical ways to use breath as a pathway to greater intimacy.   Resources and Invitation to Go Deeper: Growth Courses 101 Strong Foundations for Married Sex, here 201 Pleasure and Orgasm: Passion and Practicals, here Before (And After) I Do, here   Get Connected Inside the Circle Group Mentorship Keep learning and get direct access to Francie! Join the Circle group mentorship. Inside the Circle, we talk practicals and get support to grow. Learn more here:  The Circle   Donate to Heaven in Your Home: Your one time donation will allow us to continue to produce and distribute teaching and resources. Thank you for partnering with us! Donate here.   Connect with Francie: Receive Francie’s weekly newsletter  

Why is it still so hard to just be in your own skin when you’re a gay Latinx man? From religious guilt to macho pressure, the layers of shame and silence can run deep. In this episode, therapist and NYU instructor Lucas Saiter joins us to unpack the mental health challenges gay Latinx men face—and how we can finally stop carrying everyone else's expectations. Lucas brings powerful insight as a clinician, Latinx gay man, and community builder. From healing identity wounds to rebuilding intimate connections, he’s helping men take off the mask and find real belonging—in themselves and in their communities. If you've ever felt like you're too much or not enough, this one's for you. In this episode we: Learn how to close the gap between shame and self-lov Break the patterns of it being rude or disrespectful to discuss mental health in the Latinx world Discover how vulnerability is a superpower About Lucas Lucas Saiter is the founder and director of Manhattan Therapy NYC and Adjunct Instructor in the Department of Applied Psychology at NYU. In addition to working in a group practice in New York City, he also maintains his own private practice, supervising recent graduates obtaining hours for licensure. Clinically he has interests in many areas, including LGBTQIA+ individuals working on strengthening identity, Latinx individuals and couples, immigrants adjusting to living in NYC, adults and young adults dealing with anxiety, depression, identity concerns, trauma, and relationship and intimacy concerns. Connect With Lucas Website Hey Guys, Check This Out! Are you a guy who keeps struggling to do that thing? You know the thing you keep telling yourself and others you’re going to do, but never do? Then it’s time to get real and figure out why. Join the 40 Plus: Gay Men Gay Talk, monthly chats. They happen the third Monday of each month at 5:00 pm Pacific - Learn More! Also, join our Facebook Community - 40 Plus: Gay Men, Gay Talk Community Break free of fears. Make bold moves. Live life without apologies