For Shxtty Moms

What happens when a serial entrepreneur welcomes two babies in 12 months while running a thriving virtual business and raising a teenager? Takera Hubbard knows firsthand as she navigates this extraordinary balancing act alongside her stay-at-home husband.Takera's journey defies conventional paths at every turn. After having her first daughter as a young mother at 20, she built an impressive consulting empire offering over 40 different business services. When she married and decided to "start over" with more children in her mid-thirties, everything changed. With a 16-year-old daughter and two infant sons, Takera found herself juggling motherhood across vastly different developmental stages while maintaining her position as the family breadwinner and a doting wife.The conversation takes a powerful turn as Takera courageously shares her battle with postpartum depression. Without family support in her new city and after being pregnant for nearly two consecutive years, she describes the profound disconnection she felt from her business identity and her struggle to reconnect with herself. Rather than medication, Takera discusses how journaling, visualization, and the steadfast support of friends and family helped her reclaim her sense of self.Perhaps most fascinating is the role reversal in her marriage, with her husband assuming primary caregiving responsibilities. Takera offers rare insight into how men experience their own version of postpartum challenges as they adjust to being the stay-at-home parent while maintaining their status as the head of the household. Takera goes on to describe additional challenges that active stay-at-home dads face such as, sacrificing career aspirations and sometimes feeling a loss of identity. She shares practical ways they support each other's mental health while ensuring children receive the attention they need.For families seeking financial freedom, Takera reveals several small businesses that families can start to generate substantial income without sacrificing valuable time together.Whether you're a working mom, a stay-at-home dad, or anyone navigating the complex dance of family life and career ambitions, Takera's story offers both practical strategies and emotional reassurance that you're not alone in finding your own path to balance.Support the show

What happens when traditional education doesn't serve your children well? For Akina, a mother of three who has spent a decade homeschooling, the answer was taking education into her own hands. In this revealing conversation, she shares her journey from banking professional to full-time homeschool parent after discovering her children were being taught concepts in school that they had mastered at home two years earlier.Akina pulls back the curtain on modern homeschooling, dispelling myths about socialization and rigid teaching structures. Her approach is refreshingly practical: scheduling courses like college classes, incorporating martial arts six days a week for physical activity and social development, and tailoring education to each child's needs. For her gifted oldest son who completed high school math early, or her daughter who struggles with dyslexia and ADHD, homeschooling has provided the flexibility traditional education couldn't offer.The conversation takes an honest turn as Akina discusses her serious health challenges in 2020 when she was on sixteen medications and preparing end-of-life arrangements. Her journey back to health through lifestyle changes parallels her philosophy on education that consists of finding “what works” for the individual rather than following prescribed systems. This same approach helped during COVID when her family navigated learning gaps that continue to affect children everywhere.Perhaps most valuable are Akina's insights on maintaining balance by implementing "Self-Care Sundays," protecting her marriage through dedicated couple time, and teaching her children practical independence skills from cooking to laundry. As she puts it, "Teach them how to survive when you're gone", advice that has guided her parenting philosophy.Whether you're considering homeschooling, struggling with traditional education, or simply looking for fresh parenting perspectives, this conversation offers practical wisdom from someone who's navigated these waters successfully for years. Listen now and discover why sometimes the best educational path is the one you create yourself.⏰ Chapter Markers ⏰0:00 - Podcast Introduction and Sponsor0:56 - Meet Akina, Veteran Homeschool Mom5:44 - The Transition to Homeschooling15:04 - COVID Impact on Education26:16 Social Development and Extracurriculars 34:25 - Family Balance and Self-Care50:38 - Digital Detox: The "Ass Phone" Solution1:30:26 - Parenting Challenges and Successful Strategies1:45:49 - Creating Support Systems and Rewards➣ For Guest Appearances, Sponsorship & Bookings: shxtmom@gmail.com➣ Visit our official website: https://www.ForShxttyMoms.comSupport the show

In this deeply personal episode, Dr. Lori steps away from her usual interviewer role to share the story behind "For Shitty Moms" and her own journey through motherhood. As a behavior analyst with a doctorate in applied behavior analysis, she reveals how her professional expertise intersects with her parenting challenges, particularly as she navigates raising a confident Black son while managing her own recently diagnosed ADHD.The podcast's name comes from those moments all parents experience, when we fall short of our own expectations or when setting boundaries makes us feel like we're somehow failing. Dr. Lori  candidly discusses the "struggle and juggle" of motherhood, rejecting the myth of work-life balance in favor of a more realistic approach where sometimes certain priorities must temporarily take precedence while others wait.Particularly moving is her discussion of parenting a Black son in a system that often doesn't extend the same grace to children of color. She shares both heartbreak and pride in watching her child develop resilience in the face of microaggressions, revealing the complex emotions that come with preparing him for a world that may not always see his full potential.What sets this episode apart is Dr. Lori’s unflinching honesty about the role financial status plays in accessing parenting resources. Having worked to create a career that allows her flexibility, she acknowledges this privilege while offering practical strategies for those without the same options. From panic-inducing misunderstandings with teachers to the transformative advice about letting partners parent their own way, her stories resonate with authenticity.Whether you're a longtime listener or new to the show, this episode provides valuable insight into using behavior modification principles to improve your parenting experience. Subscribe now and join a community of parents who are embracing their imperfect moments while striving for growth.⏰ Chapter Markers ⏰0:34 - Show Introduction and Sponsorship1:36 - Meet Dr. DeLoren: Background and Profession 4:47 - Applying Behavior Analysis to Motherhood11:19 - Educational Journey and Career Path19:29 - Origins of the Show's Concept26:33 - Motherhood Challenges and ADHD Diagnosis37:11 - Coping with "Shitty Mom" Moments47:05 - The Role of Income in Motherhood54:18 - Parenting as a Black Mother1:03:24 - Struggle and Juggle vs. Work-Life Balance1:08:45 - Best Parenting Advice: Let Partners Help➣ For Guest Appearances, Sponsorship & Bookings: shxtmom@gmail.com➣ Visit our official website: https://www.ForShxttyMoms.comSupport the show

What’s the secret to balancing a demanding career and a thriving family life? Join us as we uncover the answers with Dr. Francine Harper, a Licensed Mental Health Counselor, Board Certified Behavior Analyst, Professor, Wife and mother of three neurodivergent sons. In our candid conversation, Francine shares her journey from high-powered executive roles to flexible positions that accommodate her family's unique needs. She provides actionable strategies for prioritizing responsibilities, maintaining mental health, and fostering open communication within the family.Ever wondered how to teach essential life skills to teenagers with disabilities? Francine opens up about her personal experiences, detailing the importance of family collaboration, structured environments, and empathetic parenting. She highlights her approach to nurturing independence in her children, supported by her husband and other family members. From teaching coping skills to fostering self-advocacy, Francine's practical advice is both inspirational and deeply insightful for any parent navigating similar challenges.Considering a career change or looking to enhance your parenting approach? This episode is packed with valuable insights into balancing professional ambitions with family responsibilities. Francine discusses the nuances of career flexibility, the benefits of leaving high-stress roles, and the importance of supportive dialogue between partners. Additionally, we explore the concept of Black liberation in parenting and the transformative power of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT). Whether you're a working parent or simply seeking personal growth, our conversation with Francine Harper offers a wealth of wisdom and encouragement to help you make meaningful changes in your life.⏰ Chapter Markers ⏰0:00 - Juggling Family & Professional Responsibilities13:43 - Parenting a Teenager With Disabilities21:07 - Balancing Career and Motherhood33:21 - Navigating Career Changes With Family46:44 - Reevaluating Career Goals and Parenting52:06 - Motherhood Challenges and Strategies1:00:05 - Teaching Children Coping Skills1:07:31 - Parenting With Self-Advocacy and Respect1:18:13 - Redefining Parenting Through Black Liberation1:25:06 - Career Insights and Parenting Tips➣ For Guest Appearances, Sponsorship & Bookings: shxtmom@gmail.com➣ Visit our official website: https://www.ForShxttyMoms.comSupport the show

Remember the time when balancing work and family life seemed like an extreme sport? Christina Martin, CEO of Mom to M.I.L.F LLC and a dynamic single mother, joins us on For Shxtty Moms to share her playbook on juggling a demanding engineering career while raising three kids. With stories that swing from her meticulous maintenance of B-52 aircraft, to orchestrating Family Fun Fridays, Christina's narrative is a relatable story that demonstrates the power of resilience and the art of finding ceaseless joy in the mayhem of motherhood.If parenting is a rollercoaster, then education is the loop-de-loop that gets the heart racing. We tackle the ever-changing landscape of teaching methods and academic standards, along with Christina's firsthand account of navigating late-night homework breakthroughs with her teenage daughter and the quest for balance between being supportive and challenging. The conversation is a candid look at the trials of adapting to new educational norms and fostering unique learning paths for our children, all the while sprinkled with laughter and the occasional potty-training debacle.Climb aboard for a heartfelt episode that not only pulls back the curtain on the life of a working mom in the engineering field but also dives into the trenches of daily parenting challenges. Christina and I share our experiences in finding solace in mom groups, discuss the creativity needed in managing the high cost of childcare, and reflect upon the importance of spirituality and personal growth in reclaiming the joy of motherhood. This episode is a heartfelt reminder that we're all in this together, imperfectly perfect and doing the best we can with the time we've got.⏰ Chapter Markers ⏰0:00 - Working Mom in Engineering Field13:50 - Finding Enjoyment in Family Activities 20:48 - Navigating Teaching Methods With Children 25:35 - Navigating Educational Standards and Parenting 39:39 - Challenges of Potty Training and Costs 47:15 - Navigating Middle School Challenges With Confidence 1:00:30 - Balancing Life as a Mom 1:10:53 - Challenges of Working Mothers 1:23:45 - Reclaiming Joy in Motherhood➣ For Guest Appearances, Sponsorship & Bookings: shxtmom@gmail.com➣ Visit our official website: https://www.ForShxttyMoms.comSupport the show

When Simone Renee Colbert first embraced motherhood, little did she know it would lead her to the bustling streets of New York City and a life devoted to empowering women as a doula. As she shares her transformative journey, we're reminded that sometimes the most profound callings emerge from life’s unexpected twists. Simone's infectious energy will captivate you as she recounts how her own experiences during childbirth propelled her to become an advocate for birthing choices, especially among Black women, highlighting the undeniable strength in informed and supported deliveries.The staggering maternal mortality rates among women of color are a chilling reality that cannot be ignored. In our heart-to-heart with Simone, we confront the sobering statistics and personal narratives that underscore the urgency of self-advocacy and the value of having a doula or midwife present during childbirth. Her poignant tales of postpartum challenges serve as a powerful reminder of the stakes involved and the difference that knowledge and compassionate care can make in creating safer birthing environments.Beyond birth, Simone's journey spills into the realm of education, where she confronts the institutionalized racism that many Black children face. Through her eyes, we examine alternative educational paths that challenge the status quo and offer a culturally rich and supportive learning environment for her children. Simone's embracing of homeschooling and the pursuit of academic excellence, despite the trials faced, is a riveting narrative that redefines success and resilience in the face of adversity. Join us as we celebrate her story — a beacon of inspiration for parents and educators alike, advocating for change and a better future for all our children.⏰ Chapter Markers ⏰0:00 - Black Woman Navigating Social Spaces11:57 - Navigating Challenges and Maintaining Joy23:54 - Navigating Motherhood and Healing Trauma29:58 - Navigating Motherhood and Parenting Challenges37:49 - Parenting and Guiding Young Talent48:33 - Motherhood, Self-Care, and Asking for Help1:00:23 - Connecting With Audiences Through InstagramA Podcast for the less than perfect mom!"➣ For Guest Appearances, Sponsorship & Bookings: shxtmom@gmail.com➣ Visit our official website: https://www.ForShxttyMoms.comSupport the show

When Simone Renee Colbert first embraced motherhood, little did she know it would lead her to the bustling streets of New York City and a life devoted to empowering women as a doula. As she shares her transformative journey, we're reminded that sometimes the most profound callings emerge from life’s unexpected twists. Simone's infectious energy will captivate you as she recounts how her own experiences during childbirth propelled her to become an advocate for birthing choices, especially among Black women, highlighting the undeniable strength in informed and supported deliveries.The staggering maternal mortality rates among women of color are a chilling reality that cannot be ignored. In our heart-to-heart with Simone, we confront the sobering statistics and personal narratives that underscore the urgency of self-advocacy and the value of having a doula or midwife present during childbirth. Her poignant tales of postpartum challenges serve as a powerful reminder of the stakes involved and the difference that knowledge and compassionate care can make in creating safer birthing environments.Beyond birth, Simone's journey spills into the realm of education, where she confronts the institutionalized racism that many Black children face. Through her eyes, we examine alternative educational paths that challenge the status quo and offer a culturally rich and supportive learning environment for her children. Simone's embracing of homeschooling and the pursuit of academic excellence, despite the trials faced, is a riveting narrative that redefines success and resilience in the face of adversity. Join us as we celebrate her story — a beacon of inspiration for parents and educators alike, advocating for change and a better future for all our children.⏰ Chapter Markers ⏰0:00 - Discovering Doula Support in Motherhood14:36 - Empowering Black Women Through Birthing Choices20:59 - Maternal Mortality and Advocacy31:51 - Creating Community in Nontraditional Education48:29 - Navigating Institutionalized Racism in Education59:15 - Academic Success and StrugglesA Podcast for the less than perfect mom!"➣ For Guest Appearances, Sponsorship & Bookings: shxtmom@gmail.com➣ Visit our official website: https://www.ForShxttyMoms.comSupport the show

Discover how to transform the chaos of daily life into a harmonious symphony, especially for families with children with special needs. Our heartfelt stories reveal the trials and triumphs of integrating effective behavioral change programs, ensuring every family outing becomes a memory to cherish. We dive into the art of balancing professional duties with the joys and challenges of personal life, all while carving out space for self-care and ambition. Learn the secrets to creating a productive home environment and the power of prioritizing to make every moment count.Unlock the mystery of personal productivity with our candid discussion on different organizational styles that cater to individual preferences. From contrasting approaches to conquering to-do lists to the fine art of delegation, we're sharing how to find fulfillment without getting overwhelmed. Whether you're a fan of agenda books or a proponent of writing down tasks, this episode is packed with strategies that will help you manage life's daily demands. Plus, join us as we navigate the delicate dance of asserting professional identity and earning respect in various workplace settings, sharing stories that range from surprising to affirming.Wrapping up, we delve into the world of event planning, the nuances of balancing time and money, and the importance of supporting and connecting with the community. Whether it's planning a child's birthday party or juggling career and family aspirations, we examine the multifaceted journey towards personal fulfillment. This episode isn't just about getting things done; it's about creating a life that resonates with who you are and what you value, with a little help from those who've walked the path before you. Come be a part of our supportive community and find inspiration in our collective experiences.ration.⏰ Chapter Markers ⏰0:00 - Effective Time Management and Prioritization8:11 - Different Approaches to Productivity and Organization23:31 - Challenges and Attitudes in Professional Settings31:17 - Professional Dress and Perceived Image43:43 - Event Planning and Decorating Challenges51:18 - Balancing Time and Money in Events55:14 - Balancing Life, Career, and Family1:03:30 - Community Support and Call for ContributionsA Podcast for the less than perfect mom!"➣ For Guest Appearances, Sponsorship & Bookings: shxtmom@gmail.com➣ Visit our official website: https://www.ForShxttyMoms.comSupport the show

Embark on a journey with Yohanna, our budget and business savvy guest from the golden shores of West Palm Beach. Listen as she unfolds her personal evolution from the world of banking and finance to education. Follow along as Yohanna describes the intertwined challenges of parenting adolescents on the brink of adulthood. This episode peels back the curtain on financial literacy for our young, mapping out the necessity of budgeting and the profound impact that saving can have on their futures. We're not just talking pocket money here; we're getting into the nitty-gritty of helping young teens understand the balancing act between work, car payments, credit card bills, and the invaluable lesson of understanding the true worth of a dollar.As we wade through the waters of economic reality, we tackle the art of stretching the family wardrobe with the age-old wisdom of hand-me-downs and the entrepreneurial spirit of turning garage sales into lessons in value. Listen as parents discuss the strategies for navigating the ever-shifting landscape of children's growth—both in size and in financial savvy. The tapestry of our lives is woven with threads of family support and resourcefulness, and we share heartwarming tales from the front lines of behavior therapy, where personal fulfillment often trumps professional demands.Closing the loop on this enlightening exchange, we touch upon the delicate balance between work and personal life, and how our choices in the former can ripple through the latter. YoHanna's story is a testament to the courage in career shifts and the beauty of being present for those moments that truly count. It's an episode that celebrates the victories of shaping young minds to appreciate their possessions, to instill a robust financial foundation, and to ultimately thrive as they step out into the world on their own. Join us for an episode brimming with practical wisdom and the heartfelt experiences of parents just like you, all navigating the vast oceans of raising the next generation.⏰ Chapter Markers ⏰0:00 - Parenting and the Transition to Adulthood11:09 - Teaching Financial Responsibility to Children24:11 -Teaching Money Management to Children37:56 -Teaching Kids Financial Responsibility44:32 -Maximizing Clothing Resources Through Family Support54:10 - Balancing Work and Personal Life1:05:00 - Issues Faced by a Behavior TherapistA Podcast for the less than perfect mom!"➣ For Guest Appearances, Sponsorship & Bookings: shxtmom@gmail.com➣ Visit our official website: https://www.ForShxttyMoms.comSupport the show

Ever felt like you're juggling a million balls in the air and dropping a few along the way, especially as a mom? What if I told you, it's okay to drop a few? It's okay to not be perfect. Join me in a heartfelt, raw, and real dialogue with Cynthia, a mother of three girls and a proud nurse. She walks us through the intricate dance of managing work and home, while nurturing a healthy marriage and her own self.Cynthia's journey of balancing her nursing career with motherhood is nothing short of inspiring. She takes us through the challenges of coordinating schedules, managing the girls' extracurricular activities, and maintaining the elusive work-life balance. With refreshing honesty, Cynthia shares her struggles and victories, revealing the mess and beauty of this journey. You'll be moved by her tale of positive parenting that led to a proud maternal moment, reminding us all of the impact we make in our children's lives.In the pursuit of being supermoms, it's easy to forget ourselves and burnout. Cynthia reminds us of the importance of self-care, not as an indulgence, but as a necessity. She shares insights into strategies for lightening the load – outsourcing tasks, being resourceful, and teaching kids to contribute. Dive into this conversation of faith, determination, and the many hats that a mom has to wear. The journey is hard, the journey is beautiful, and Cynthia's story is a gentle reminder that it's okay to be a work in progress. Join us and be inspired.⏰ Chapter Markers ⏰0:00 - Interview With Cynthia13:25 - Balancing Nursing Careers and Family Life24:41 - Improving as a Mother, Seeking Balance38:16 - A Mother's Struggles and Imperfections49:50 - Balancing Schedules and Extracurriculars for Children1:00:39 - Recent Motherhood Challenges and Rewards1:07:58 - The Joy and Challenges of Motherhood1:16:28 - Challenges and Advice in Motherhood1:24:23 - Strategies for Lightening the Load1:34:36 - Pleasant Exchange and Podcast PromotionA Podcast for the less than perfect mom!"➣ For Guest Appearances, Sponsorship & Bookings: shxtmom@gmail.com➣ Visit our official website: https://www.ForShxttyMoms.comSupport the show