Get Your Sexy Back

Let’s talk about blowjobs.Not the performative, porn-scripted kind. And not the kind you give just to “get it over with.” We’re talking about the ones that are offered from genuine turn-on, deep connection, and sovereign choice.In this week’s episode, we open up about a very real part of our journey- how something that used to feel like a chore (for Kim) became a space of embodied pleasure, sacred play, and deep trust between us.And it’s not just about blowjobs. It’s about what happens when you remove pressure, drop the old stories, and let truth and turn-on take the lead. Quick summary into this week's episode: The difference between performing and feelingHow porn culture and shame hijack connectionWhy sacred sex has nothing to do with technique and everything to do with safetyHow feedback can be foreplayAnd why your body will always tell the truth (if you’re willing to listen)And many more! If you’re someone who’s already been on this path…Who’s done the workshops, studied the teachings, and experienced sacred sex in its fullness…But you know there’s another layer waiting to be unlocked…We’d love to invite you deeper.Our private couples retreats are for the ones who are ready for the next level of turn-on, tenderness, and truth. It’s one-on-one work with us at our lakeside sanctuary in Ontario—a space designed for sacred re-patterning, embodied pleasure, and soul-deep partnership.💫 And as a thank-you to our listeners, if you book a call with us before July 31st, and schedule your retreat by October 31st, 2025, you’ll receive $1000 off.👉 Book your private retreat exploration call here: https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call  About us: Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing. Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic... And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts. Follow us below and continue the convo! Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffinInstagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/   TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreatsWebsite - https://getyoursexyback.ca/And  https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

Desire isn’t something you chase.  It’s something you create together. We used to think desire was about how we looked, the outfit, the hair, and the moment. But now, after everything we’ve navigated together, we know it’s so much deeper than that.  In this episode, we share…What desire truly means to us now as a couple who’s done the healing, unlearning, and re-embodyingHow our ideas of desire have changed over the yearsWhat are the little things or practices that we do that make the other feel desired, and how do we desire each other in a lasting or more meaningful wayAnd so much more!  If you would like to learn more about Couples Retreats at Phoenix Rising Retreats and/or Private Coaching, book a complimentary Exploratory Call with Kim here - https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call Plus, when you book your free call before July 31, 2025, to learn more, you will receive $1000 off a retreat of your choice in 2025!   About us: Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.  Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...  And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love. What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together. They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts. Follow us below and continue the convo! Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffinInstagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/   TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreatsWebsite - https://getyoursexyback.ca/And  https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

And we are back with another episode! This time, let’s talk about something that holds the key to deeper intimacy — communication. Because when you create a space of safety and presence, you not only open the door to better communication… you unlock the full potential of love, joy, and sexy connection in your relationship. In this week’s episode, we explored…How many of us (yes, both women and men) have been conditioned to hold back our truth in relationships? Why it feels so scary to be truly vulnerable — and why learning to do it can transform your connection. What are real-life stories, practical tools, and a powerful “Fears, Desires & Loves” practice to help couples break down walls and build trust? And so much more!  If you would like to learn more about Couples Retreats at Phoenix Rising Retreats and/or Private Coaching, book a complimentary Exploratory Call with Kim here - https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call Plus, when you book your free call before July 1st, 2025, to learn more, you will receive $1000 off a retreat of your choice in 2025!   About us:Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts. Follow us below and continue the convo! Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffinInstagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/   TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreatsWebsite - https://getyoursexyback.ca/And  https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

We’re Kim and Roberto, and we’re thrilled to be co-hosting this journey together, both on podcasts and in life ❤️We're excited to bring a fresh perspective on certain topics and offer a unique view on various aspects as a couple.  In this episode, we will share about…How our relationship evolved from early “can’t-believe-this-is-happening” moments to launching Phoenix Rising Retreats up on our lakeside sanctuaryTransitioning from city life to being immersed in natureHow Tantra, communication tools, and trusting our bodies helped us break down old walls, deepen intimacy, and build a foundation of compassion and presenceAnd so much more!  If you would like to learn more about Couples Retreats at Phoenix Rising Retreats and/or Private Coaching, book a complimentary Exploratory Call with Kim here - https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-callPlus, when you book your free call before July 1st, 2025, to learn more, you will receive $1000 off a retreat of your choice in 2025!    About usKim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing. Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic... And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts. Follow us below and continue the convo! Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffinInstagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/   TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreatsWebsite - https://getyoursexyback.ca/And  https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

There’s a sacred shift that happens when a woman stops trying to do it all and starts asking, “What would it look like to actually live in balance?” Bliss isn’t a destination—it’s a frequency you can embody daily. In this episode, Danite and I go deep about...What happens when the life you built no longer fits the woman you’ve become?Could bliss be something you tune into, not chase after?Are you leading with your mind... or your body’s deep wisdom?Is your hustle really a trauma response?And many more... If you would like to learn more about Couples Retreats at Phoenix Rising Retreats and/or Private Coaching book a complimentary Exploratory Call with Kim here - https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call If you would want to work with her in other ways, you can also check out these other options, which might be what you are looking for ❤️Jade Egg Program: https://getyoursexyback.ca/sexy-back-jade-egg-program/Sacred Pleasure Membership: https://getyoursexyback.ca/sacred-pleasure-membership/  About the guest ❤️Dr. Danite Haller is a naturopathic doctor, Sex, Love & Relationship Guide, and the creator of Bliss & Tallow—a luxurious tallow-based body butter designed to awaken self-connection and pleasure. After 17 years in clinical practice, her own journey through burnout and feminine awakening led her to Tantra, embodiment, and sacred intimacy. Today, she helps individuals and couples reclaim their sensual power and create deeply connected lives. She’s also the host of The Bliss Lab podcast, where she explores the art of living turned on—one juicy conversation at a time. Get to know Dr. Danite Haller more through her socials...Website – https://www.blissandtallow.com & https://www.drdanite.com  Recieve 10% off Bliss & Tallow Body Butter using this code - Sexy10 Instagram – https://www.instagram.com/blissandtallow—----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Follow Kim below and continue the convo! Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffinInstagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/   Website - https://getyoursexyback.ca/TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats & https://www.tiktok.com/@getyoursexybackcoachPrivate FB Group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/2251812558445958/   Follow us below and continue the convo! Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffinInstagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/   TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreatsWebsite - https://getyoursexyback.ca/And  https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

Feeling more like roommates than lovers lately? Wondering how to reignite that spark without overhauling your whole life? You might be asking yourself as well, what it really takes to keep passion alive in long-term relationships—especially when life feels chaotic. In this heart-to-heart conversation I have with sensual embodiment coach Jannine MacKinnon, we go deep about...What if the spark never left—what if you just stopped feeling itIs it possible to transform your relationship without your partner “doing the work” tooHow your relationship becomes the mirror for your deepest healingWhy the real growth begins when you're inside the partnership, not outside of itAnd many more... If you would like to connect with Kim on an exploratory call for coaching and personalized private couples retreats, book your call here - https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call If you would want to work with her in other ways, you can also check out these other options, which might be what you are looking for ❤️Jade Egg Program: https://getyoursexyback.ca/sexy-back-jade-egg-program/Sacred Pleasure Membership: https://getyoursexyback.ca/sacred-pleasure-membership/  About the guest ❤️Jannine MacKinnon is a Sexual Empowerment Coach, Speaker, and host of the Unapologetic with Jannine MacKinnon Podcast. As a certified Trauma-Informed Sex, Love, and Relationship Coach, she helps women and couples cultivate deeper connection and experience more expansive pleasure—inside and outside the bedroom. Through a powerful blend of inner child healing, breathwork, and sacred sexuality, Jannine guides her clients in building a foundation of love, safety, and belonging. From this grounded and empowered place, they can confidently explore their desires, embrace their sensuality, and reignite their inner spark. Get to know Jannine more through her socials...Podcast: https://janninemackinnon.com/podcast/Website: https://janninemackinnon.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jannine.mackinnon/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/unapologetic.jannine/ Freebie from Jannine: https://janninemackinnon.com/honey-pot/ —----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Follow Kim below and continue the convo! Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=569755109Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/   Website - https://getyoursexyback.ca/Private FB Group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/2251812558445958/   Follow us below and continue the convo! Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffinInstagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/   TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreatsWebsite - https://getyoursexyback.ca/And  https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

What if the missing piece in your journey to wholeness wasn’t more hustle, more proving, or more striving—but a deeper connection to your own sensuality? Feminine embodiment doesn't begin in your mind—it starts in your body, in the soft, sacred remembering of your own desire. In this episode, Willeke and I converse about...What if your sensuality isn’t a luxury, but a lifeline?How have you been performing instead of embodying?What stories did you inherit about love, s*x, and self-trust?What if your sexuality is the very thing that leads you back to your truth? And many more... If you would like to connect with Kim on an exploratory call for coaching and personalized private couples retreats, book your call here - https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call If you would want to work with her in other ways, you can also check out these other options, which might be what you are looking for ❤️Jade Egg Program: https://getyoursexyback.ca/sexy-back-jade-egg-program/Sacred Pleasure Membership: https://getyoursexyback.ca/sacred-pleasure-membership/  About the guest ❤️Willeke is a sex coach for single women. It's her mission to reconnect women to their innate feminine power, and to inspire them to choose for their unpolished truth, pleasure and desires. She was leading a successful life as a single woman working in IT for over 20 years, nevertheless, feeling sexless, drained, and very single. She longed for both a happy relationship and a blooming sex life, but neither of them seemed to be within her reach. Until she decided that she no longer wanted to wait for the right, and instead chose to discover her sexuality. She took a sex, love and relationship coaching certification, which completely transformed her life. She is now in a happy relationship of 5 years -  finally choosing her own pleasure and a sex coach for single women, helping other women to find their pleasure too. Get to know Willeke more through her socials...Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/heartful_coaching/LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/wbaumgartner/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/baumpje/—----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Follow Kim below and continue the convo! Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=569755109Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/   Website - https://getyoursexyback.ca/Private FB Group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/2251812558445958/   Follow us below and continue the convo! Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffinInstagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/   TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreatsWebsite - https://getyoursexyback.ca/And  https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

For this week’s episode, it will be slightly different as I will be doing it solo. It has been a while since I did a solo podcast, but I am very much excited to share with you a couple of things that have been going on in my life. Now, in this episode, I will be sharing some updates on the following: The Get Your Sexy Back podcastThe launch of the Phoenix Rising RetreatsPackages and other practices that I have for you all For customized or personalized coaching and retreats, you can book an exploratory call with me here - https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call If you would also want to work with me in other ways, you can check out these other options, which might be what you are looking for ❤️Jade Egg Program: https://getyoursexyback.ca/sexy-back-jade-egg-program/Sacred Pleasure Membership: https://getyoursexyback.ca/sacred-pleasure-membership/ —----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------About me ❤️I am a certified trauma-informed, Intimacy, Relationship, & Tantra Teacher, Speaker, and Coach for women and couples. I am a bestselling author, a graduate of Layla Martin’s Institute of Integrated Tantric Sexuality, and founder of Get Your Sexy Back.I specialize in Tantra, Sexuality and Relationship Transformation, giving you the tools to unleash your innate confidence and unlock profound new levels of self-love, pleasure, empowerment, and intimacy with yourself - and in your relationships!  Follow me below and continue the convo! Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=569755109Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/   Website - https://getyoursexyback.ca/Private FB Group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/2251812558445958/    Follow us below and continue the convo! Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffinInstagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/   TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreatsWebsite - https://getyoursexyback.ca/And  https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

What if being deeply loved didn’t require you to do it all? What if the magic starts when you pause, soften, and let yourself be held?  Many of us—especially women—were raised to override our needs, abandon our bodies, and prioritize others in exchange for love. But what if real partnership doesn’t require overgiving? What if true intimacy begins the moment we come home to ourselves? In this week’s episode, Lindsay and I talk about...How women are conditioned to over function in love—and how that might be blocking you from receiving the support you truly desire.How saying no, feeling your boundaries, and tuning into your body can shift everything about how you relate and connect.Reclaiming your expressive, intuitive self—the one that might’ve been dimmed or labeled as “witchy”—and how that energy is actually your greatest gift.How slowing down and clarifying what you actually want can help you build a relationship that feels safe, expansive, and beautifully mutual.And many more!  If you would like to connect with Kim on an exploratory call for coaching and retreats, book your call here - https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call Kim will be having an in-person couples retreat soon and if you want to get more information about it, you can sign up to be part of the information waitlist and be one of the first few people who will get more details on the retreat! Sign up here: https://get-your-sexy-back.myflodesk.com/phoenix-rising-retreats If you would want to work with her in other ways, you can also check out these other options, which might be what you are looking for ❤️Jade Egg Program: https://getyoursexyback.ca/sexy-back-jade-egg-program/Sacred Pleasure Membership: https://getyoursexyback.ca/sacred-pleasure-membership/ About the guest ❤️Lindsey teaches witchy women how to do less to receive more and be in True Partnership! Get to know Lindsey more through her socials...Website - https://www.wolfandmooncoaching.com Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/wolfandmooncoaching/Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/lindsaygates.strawnProduct - https://wolf-and-moon-coaching.kit.com/products/moon-tasselsKits - https://wolf-and-moon-coaching.kit.com/products/ritual-date-night —----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Follow Kim below and continue the convo! Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=569755109Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/   Website - https://getyoursexyback.ca/Private FB Group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/2251812558445958/   Follow us below and continue the convo! Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffinInstagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/   TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreatsWebsite - https://getyoursexyback.ca/And  https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

Let’s talk about the deep, juicy transformation that happens in midlife—the kind of shift that turns everything you thought you knew about yourself upside down. This conversation is all about reclaiming your body, your sensuality, and your inner wisdom as you transition through midlife and beyond. This stage of life isn’t about fading into the background—it’s about unlocking a whole new level of passion, wisdom, and sensuality. In this week’s episode, Luce and I, talk about...Is midlife the beginning of the end—or the start of something incredible?Menopause: A crisis or a rebirth?Who says women over 50 can’t be magnetic?What if your body already has all the answers?And many more!  If you would like to connect with Kim on an exploratory call for coaching and retreats, book your call here - https://calendly.com/talk-to-kim/exploration-call Kim will be having an in-person couples retreat soon and if you want to get more information about it, you can sign up to be part of the information waitlist and be one of the first few people who will get more details on the retreat! Sign up here: https://get-your-sexy-back.myflodesk.com/phoenix-rising-retreats If you would want to work with her in other ways, you can also check out these other options, which might be what you are looking for ❤️Jade Egg Program: https://getyoursexyback.ca/sexy-back-jade-egg-program/Sacred Pleasure Membership: https://getyoursexyback.ca/sacred-pleasure-membership/  About the guest ❤️Meet Luce, your guide to unlocking the wild, untamed power of midlife. A trailblazing coach in Somatic Liberation & Erotic Sovereignty for Midlife Women, Luce is here to disrupt the narrative and help women claim their fullest expression. Her own menopause journey ignited a fierce transformation, opening a portal to deep wisdom, raw empowerment, and divine awakening. Now, she’s on a mission to show women how menopause isn’t an ending—it’s a superpower.Blending a decade-spanning career in design, social innovation, and academia with her mastery as a trauma-informed somatic educator, Luce brings a soulful mix of compassion, courage, and shamanic insight to the table. She’s not just here to guide you—she’s here to awaken the goddess within. Tune in for deep wisdom, electric empowerment, and a dose of unapologetic feminine magic. Get to know Luce more through her socials...Website - https://www.immergence.co/ & https://themidlifetemple.com/Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/immergence.co & https://www.instagram.com/themidlifetempleFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/immergence.co—----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------Follow Kim below and continue the convo! Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=569755109Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/   Website - https://getyoursexyback.ca/Private FB Group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/2251812558445958/   Follow us below and continue the convo! Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffinInstagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/   TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreatsWebsite - https://getyoursexyback.ca/And  https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com