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Sex, Love & Everything In Between

Meg and Jacob O'Neill
97 episodes   Last Updated: Nov 13, 24

Welcome to the Sex, Love & Everything in between podcast, a show devoted to helping modern days couples create & experience epic sex & deeeeep intimacy. Join Sex & Relationship Coach, Meg O, and her husband, Leadership Coach, Jacob O’Neill as they take you on a real, raw & unfiltered behind the scenes look into their relationship & sex life. From navigating conflict + communicating with an open heart to having the best orgasms of your life + the glory of anal sex …Yep, you’ll truly be joining Meg & Jacob on a journey into sex, love & EVERYTHING IN BETWEEN. WARNING: Things get hot, steamy & explicit in this podcast. Listen at your own risk. 

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Welcome to this week’s episode of Sex, Love & Everything In Between! Join Meg and Jacob O’Neill as they share the raw and beautiful story of their unassisted home birth. They take you through every moment, from the gentle flow of early labor to the deep, powerful sounds that welcomed their son, Oisin, into the world.Meg opens up about how she tapped into the ancient wisdom of her body, fully embracing the intensity of each surge. “Letting the ancient wisdom of my body vocalize through me,” she shares, highlighting the beauty of surrendering to this incredible experience. Jacob reflects on his role as a steady support, creating a safe space for Meg during this transformative journey. Together, they dive into themes of trust, simplicity, and the healing power of being witnessed by another mother.Whether you’re curious about free birth, what labor really feels like, or the deep connections between birth and ceremony, this conversation is a heartfelt reminder of the strength and intuition that come with bringing new life into the world.They also riff off on:How Meg’s embodiment practices guided her through laborMeg describes the deep sounds that emerged during labor—not screams, but a guttural expression of her body’s wisdom.The importance of having a supportive birth keeperJacob’s thoughts on masculinity and supporting a birthing partnerThe unexpected turns during labor that brought both joy and confrontation.Tips for creating a sacred and distraction-free space for birthand many more!⚡ Loved this episode? Make sure to subscribe and leave us a review! We love hearing your thoughts and experiences.⚡ Let’s stay connected:- Follow Meg: @the.meg.o- Follow Jacob: @thejacoboneill⚡ Grab our relationship freebie: https://meg-oneill.com/relationship-freebie⚡ Join DESIRE DATE: https://meg-oneill.com/desire-date⚡ Join Full Spectrum Woman: https://meg-oneill.com/full-spectrum-woman⚡ Join TGOM - https://www.theembodiedmaninstitute.com/tgom-2024Listen to Part 1 of the Birth Story here: Ep 95: Our Birth Story Part 1Jacob & Meg also coach individuals & couples. Reach out to them via Instagram for more information. 
In this week’s episode of Sex, Love & Everything in Between, Meg O’Neill shares the story of her journey to becoming a mom. From finding out she was pregnant to making big choices like having a wild pregnancy (no doctors, no scans, just trusting her body), Meg opens up about what it felt like to prepare for their baby, Oisin, to come into the world.Meg and Jacob talk about learning to handle their worries, staying strong together, and trusting that everything would be okay. Meg explains how they created a safe, loving space at home to welcome their son, showing that birth isn’t just about the moment he arrives, but the whole journey leading up to it.They also riffed off on:•Choosing a Different Path: Why Meg and Jacob decided on a wild pregnancy and free birth.•Handling Fear with Love: How Jacob faced his worries and stayed present for Meg.•Staying Calm in the Unknown: Meg’s biggest practice was trusting the timing, even when it was hard.•Creating a Safe Space: Why having a calm, loving home made all the difference.•Perfect Timing: The special way Oisin chose to come into their lives, making everything feel just right.and many more.⚡ Loved this episode? Make sure to subscribe and leave us a review! We love hearing your thoughts and experiences.⚡ Let’s stay connected:- Follow Meg: @the.meg.o- Follow Jacob: @thejacoboneill⚡ Grab our relationship freebie: https://meg-oneill.com/relationship-freebie⚡ Join DESIRE DATE: https://meg-oneill.com/desire-date⚡ Join Full Spectrum Woman: https://meg-oneill.com/full-spectrum-woman⚡ Join TGOM - https://www.theembodiedmaninstitute.com/tgom-2024Listen to the Episode: Ep 88: Preparing for Birth as a Rite of Passage Jacob & Meg also coach individuals & couples. Reach out to them via Instagram for more information. 
In this week’s episode of Sex, Love & Everything in Between, Meg O’Neill sits down with Kiki Maree, a master of Yoni massage and Tantric healing. Together, they explore how these sacred practices can help you reconnect with your body, release hidden pain, and rediscover your own pleasure.Kiki shares her deep knowledge of Yoni massage—not just as a form of touch, but as a healing practice that allows women to let go of trauma stored in the pelvis. Whether it’s past emotional wounds or the physical aftermath of childbirth, Yoni massage creates space for healing and empowerment in a way that feels natural and intuitive.Meg and Kiki also dig into the power of Tantric massage. This isn’t about sex—it’s about using sexual energy to balance your emotions, open yourself up, and connect more deeply with yourself and others.🔥 They also riff off on:•Yoni Healing: What it means to heal from the inside out and take control of your pelvic health.•Tantric Rituals: Using sexual energy for emotional and spiritual balance.•Pelvic Wellness: Why tuning into your pelvic health is key to experiencing deeper pleasure and connection.•Meg’s Personal Journey: How Yoni massage helped her prepare for childbirth, both physically and emotionally.•Self-Empowerment: Simple ways to reclaim your body and deepen your relationships.and many more...🔥 Love this episode? Don’t forget to subscribe and share your thoughts in a review. We love hearing from our listeners!🔥 Let’s stay connected:•Follow Meg: @the.meg.o•Follow Jacob: @thejacoboneill🔥 Connect with Kiki:Instagram: @yonilicious @kiki.maree | Website: https://www.yonilicious.com.au/🔥 Want more?•Heed the call and join The Gathering of Men: https://www.theembodiedmaninstitute.com/tgom-2024 •Explore our relationship resources: www.meg-oneill.com/relationship-freebieJacob & Meg also coach individuals and couples—slide into their DMs for more info!
In this week’s episode of Sex, Love & Everything in Between, Jacob O’Neill invites relationship researcher Rory Kilmartin to dive deep into the hidden dynamics that drive conflict and connection in our relationships. If you’ve ever felt like you’re caught in the same arguments over and over again, it’s time to explore what might be going on beneath the surface.Rory has spent over 30 years researching human relationships, uncovering the invisible forces that shape how we relate to others—and ourselves. He’s turned one of life’s great mysteries into a body of knowledge that few have even come close to understanding. Through his years of conversations, interviews, and study with elders from around the world, Rory has decoded why good people sometimes create difficult dynamics—and how to finally make sense of it all.Could your archetypal nature be dictating your relationship struggles? Rory’s groundbreaking work invites you to discover which archetype you unconsciously embody, and how this shapes your behavior in ways you may not even realize. Find out how knowing your archetype can transform your most important relationships.🔥 Key points they riff on:•How uncovering your archetype can explain every argument you’ve ever had•Why understanding these hidden dynamics leads to instant clarity and harmony•The difference between reacting from survival vs. responding from maturity•Why you think you’re being loving—but your partner perceives the opposite•Moving from confusion to clarity in all your relationships, from romance to familyRory’s work isn’t just another relationship theory—it’s a practical guide to transforming the way you understand and engage with others. If you’re ready to break free from old patterns, this episode is for you.🔥 Love this episode? Don’t forget to subscribe and share your thoughts in a review. We love hearing from our listeners!🔥 Let’s stay connected:•Follow Meg: @the.meg.o•Follow Jacob: @thejacoboneill🔥 Connect with Rory:• Visit Archetypal Relationships: https://archetypalrelationships.com/• Take the free archetypal quiz here: https://archetypalrelationships.com/quiz• Email info@rorykilmartin.com to book a call with Rory's team and learn more about their programs, mentioning this podcast for a special deal.• Go to www.AR-calendar.com to schedule a call with Rory's team, again mentioning this podcast.🔥 Want more?•Heed the call and join The Gathering of Men: https://www.theembodiedmaninstitute.com/tgom-2024 •Explore our relationship resources: www.meg-oneill.com/relationship-freebieJacob & Meg also coach individuals and couples—slide into their DMs for more info!
This isn’t about suppressing what you’re feeling; it’s about expanding your capacity to be with whatever life throws your way.In this episode of Sex, Love & Everything in Between, Jacob O’Neill sits down with life & embodied leadership coach, impact-driven brand strategist, somatic practitioner, men's work facilitator and apprentice rite of passage guide, Jose Alejandro, for a candid conversation on navigating the complexities of modern manhood. They dive deep into what it means to show up fully in relationships and life, even when it feels overwhelming.Jose opens up about the struggles men face when balancing the demands of relationships and personal growth, and how rites of passage can help cultivate resilience, emotional regulation, and a sense of purpose.They also riff on:•Jacob’s raw confession about the anxieties of becoming a father•Why integrating emotions isn’t just about intellectual understanding, but somatic practice•Jose’s transformative journey from corporate burnout to embodied leadership•The dangers of bypassing embodied practices for intellectual solutions•The power of boundaries as acts of love•Finding clarity and power through rites of passage•The importance of checking in with yourself and owning your emotional state•Why “holding it all together” doesn’t mean doing it allAnd so much more…🔥 Love this episode? Don’t forget to subscribe and share your thoughts in a review. We love hearing from our listeners!🔥 Let’s stay connected:•Follow Meg: @the.meg.o•Follow Jacob: @thejacoboneill🔥 Connect with Jose:•Visit his website: www.josealejandro.co•Instagram: @rjose_alejandro🔥 Want more?•Heed the call and join The Gathering of Men: https://tgom.pages.ontraport.net/The-gathering-of-men-23•Explore our relationship resources: www.meg-oneill.com/relationship-freebieJacob & Meg also coach individuals and couples—slide into their DMs for more info!
“I can have it all and nothing. I can be it all and nothing.”It’s not about controlling the moment; it’s about surrendering to the tension and letting it transform you. In this episode of Sex, Love & Everything in Between, Jacob gets raw and real with the incredible Anthea Balfour,  a somatic psychotherapist and tantric healer, diving into the space where masculine strength meets vulnerability.Anthea shares how Tantra and shadow work guide us into meeting the scariest parts of ourselves—our deepest fears, desires, and vulnerabilities—and how integrating this helps us heal and create true intimacy with ourselves and others. Through her work, Anthea has witnessed men and women transform their relationship to power, pleasure, and emotional integrity.They also riff off on:•Understanding why men struggle to hold space without trying to fix or perform•The power of Tantra in helping us embrace our shadows and cultivate emotional and energetic integrity•How men can heal their fear of power and sex through the support of women•Breaking free from routine and stepping into true discipline—without losing your edge•How women can invite men into deeper connection without emasculating them•The fear women secretly harbor around strong men and how we can heal it•Building emotional integrity that actually fortifies your love lifeand many more...⚡ Loved this episode? Make sure to subscribe and leave us a review! We love hearing your thoughts and experiences.⚡ Let’s stay connected:- Follow Meg: @the.meg.o- Follow Jacob: @thejacoboneill⚡ Connect with Anthea:- The O Room: matryarch.com/anthea- Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/_theantheabalfour⚡ Grab our relationship freebie: https://meg-oneill.com/relationship-freebie⚡ Join DESIRE DATE: https://meg-oneill.com/desire-date⚡ Join TGOM - https://www.theembodiedmaninstitute.com/tgom-2024Jacob & Meg also coach individuals & couples—slide into their DMs for more info!
We’re back with another juicy episode of Sex, Love & Everything in Between!In this episode, Meg and Jacob dive deep into a raw, vulnerable conversation about opening up new desires in the bedroom. Whether it's craving some playful kink or yearning for more sensual connection, this episode gets into the nitty-gritty of how to invite your partner into your fantasies in a way that feels aligned and safe for both of you. Let’s talk about being bold, breaking through the "routine," and tapping into what really turns you on—without guilt or judgment.Meg vulnerably shares her experience navigating her pregnancy with trust and surrender, while Jacob reflects on how personal rituals can deepen the bonds we share. They show us that intimacy goes way beyond the physical—it's about inviting your partner into your inner world.They riff off on:How to express new desires and fantasies without making your partner feel like they’re doing something “wrong”Building a foundation of trust and communication that lets you be both wild and vulnerableLeading with curiosity and openness—because that’s where the magic lives!Using everyday moments to create deeper intimacy, even when life is busyThe importance of taking ownership of your pleasure and inviting your partner to join you thereand many more...If you're ready to hear the real, unfiltered truth about birth, surrender, and embracing every aspect of this intense rite of passage, this episode is for you.⚡ Loved this episode? Make sure to subscribe and leave us a review! We love hearing your thoughts and experiences.⚡ Let’s stay connected:- Follow Meg: @the.meg.o- Follow Jacob: @thejacoboneill⚡ Grab our relationship freebie: https://meg-oneill.com/relationship-freebie⚡ Join DESIRE DATE: https://meg-oneill.com/desire-date⚡ Join TGOM - https://www.theembodiedmaninstitute.com/tgom-2024Jacob & Meg also coach individuals & couples. Reach out to them via Instagram for more information. 
Hey lovers, welcome back to Sex, Love & Everything in Between! This week, Jacob O’Neill sits down with a powerhouse guest, Samson Odusanya, to dive deep into the themes of masculinity, pain, and what it truly means to create harmony in a world obsessed with control and balance.Jacob kicks off with a heartfelt intro about how he connected with Samson through mutual friends and was blown away by his depth, presence, and the way Samson weaves truth into everything he shares. Together, they explore how modern society’s obsession with quick fixes and control often disconnects us from the natural flow of life—and how true harmony is about embracing change and flowing with the seasons of life.They riff off on:•The importance of voluntary discomfort and leaning into challenges as a way to grow as men.•Samson’s powerful perspective on harmony vs. balance and how the latter is an illusion.•Jacob’s emotional story of family, legacy, and the strength of the women in his lineage, beautifully illustrating the power of love and resilience through death and rebirth.•How pain, both physical and emotional, is a necessary part of life’s initiation process, especially for men on their path to becoming fathers, husbands, and leaders.This episode is a raw, vulnerable, and transformative conversation that will resonate with anyone looking to deepen their connection to themselves, their family, and the world around them.⚡ Loved this episode? Don’t forget to subscribe and leave us a review! Your feedback means the world to us.⚡ Follow us:•@the.meg.o•@thejacoboneill⚡ Connect with Samson:• @samsons_strength⚡ Grab our relationship freebie: https://meg-oneill.com/relationship-freebie⚡ Join DESIRE DATE: https://meg-oneill.com/desire-date⚡ Join TGOM - https://www.theembodiedmaninstitute.com/tgom-2024
In today’s episode, Meg and Jacob O'Neill dive into the ultimate rite of passage: preparing for the birth of their first child. As Meg approaches 38 weeks, they reflect on the emotional and physical journey of pregnancy and the intensity of the birth process. This isn't just a logistical challenge—it's a deep, spiritual initiation that’s asking both of them to surrender to the unknown. With Jacob humorously navigating the "holy grail" of nursing chairs and Meg embodying trust in her body’s wisdom, they explore what it really means to meet this moment with presence, humor, and raw authenticity.They riff off on:The surreal experience of waiting for their lives to change, with no fixed schedule for when the baby will arrive.Meg's powerful intention not to manifest a "perfect" birth, but to fully surrender to whatever comes.The deep trust they’ve developed with their birth keeper, Leslie, and how she nourishes Meg in ways she never knew she needed.The unexpected healing that’s emerging for both of them, especially Jacob as he reflects on the masculine role in the birth process.and many more...If you're ready to hear the real, unfiltered truth about birth, surrender, and embracing every aspect of this intense rite of passage, this episode is for you.⚡ Loved this episode? Make sure to subscribe and leave us a review! We love hearing your thoughts and experiences.⚡ Let’s stay connected:- Follow Meg: @the.meg.o- Follow Jacob: @thejacoboneill⚡ Grab our relationship freebie: https://meg-oneill.com/relationship-freebie⚡ Join DESIRE DATE: https://meg-oneill.com/desire-date⚡ Join TGOM - https://www.theembodiedmaninstitute.com/tgom-2024Jacob & Meg also coach individuals & couples. Reach out to them via Instagram for more information. 
What does it take for a man to balance fatherhood, community leadership, and integrity?In this episode of Sex, Love & Everything in Between, Jacob O’Neill sits down with Ryan Hubbards, founder of Cool to be Conscious, to explore the challenges of becoming a dad and leading a cultural movement. From the emotional growth required for fatherhood to the importance of grounding in modern men’s work, this episode dives deep into what it means to live with integrity.They riff off on:• Jacob introduces Ryan Hubbards and discusses the movement’s cultural significance and integrity.•Ryan reflects on vulnerability and loneliness in personal development.•Jacob and Ryan explore challenges in balancing family with leadership.•Jacob shares the importance of creating harmony at home.•Jacob and Ryan discuss personal growth through fatherhood.•The significance of a supportive brotherhood and community leadership.•The importance of building a relationship with nature for personal development.•Balancing leadership with maintaining personal integrity.•Addressing sexual energy and boundaries in community settings.•Jacob and Ryan discuss the importance of vulnerability and commitment in relationships.And many, many more...⚡ If you loved this episode & the podcast, make sure to subscribe so you don’t miss anything.AND… it would mean the world to us if you rated & reviewed the show.We carefully read each and every review, and we love hearing about your experience with the podcast!⚡️Let’s Stay Connected:IG: @the.meg.o @thejacoboneill @sexloveeverythinginbetween⚡️Connect with RyanIG: www.instagram.com/ryanhubbards      www.instagram.com/cool2beconscious⚡ Grab the Relationship Freebie here --> https://meg-oneill.com/relationship-freebie⚡ Want more? Here are some of the offerings & courses you can join us in…THE GATHERING OF MEN: https://www.theembodiedmaninstitute.com/tgom-2024FULL SPECTRUM WOMAN: https://meg-oneill.com/full-spectrum-womanCLAIMED: An in-person event who wants to feel deeply claimed by their partner: https://meg-oneill.com/claimed-immersionPLEASURE PORTAL: 14 day event - https://meg-oneill.com/pleasure-portalIgnite Your Intimacy: A 4 week course for couples ready for a sexier, wilder, more ALIVE relationship… NOW! --->https://meg-oneill.com/ignite-your-intimacy⚡ WATCH THIS EPISODE ON YOUTUBE: https://youtu.be/tN1TNP6qefsJacob & Meg also coach individuals & couples. Reach out to them via Instagram for more information. #fatherhood #parenthood #menscircle #menscommunity #mensleadership