The Dom Sub Living BDSM and Kink Podcast
82 episodes Last Updated: Apr 28, 25
Welcome to the Dom Sub Living Podcast, your go-to kinky resource, so you can get out of the vanilla rut, become the best Dominant or submissive you can be, and make BDSM a lifestyle. Explore the many facets of the Dom/sub lifestyle and gain practical insights and tips to enhance your journey.
Your host, Alesandra Madison, is a renowned BDSM educator, empowering individuals and couples to embrace their sensual selves. As the creator of Domsubliving.com, Alesandra promotes sex education, healthy power dynamics, and open communication. With a commitment to inclusivity, she helps kinksters create authentic and fulfilling intimate experiences.
Whether you're seeking guidance, desiring to deepen your understanding of the lifestyle, or simply looking for entertainment and connection, the Dom Sub Living Podcast is your trusted companion. You’ll learn about BDSM, kink, power exchange, Daddy Dom/little girl relationships (DDlg), D/s, sexual wellness, bondage, and more. Each episode features engaging discussions, expert interviews, and heartfelt stories, ensuring a diverse and enriching listening experience you're not going to want to miss. Hit subscribe, and get ready to transform your life and relationship.
Episodes
Apr 28, 2025
5 BDSM Scene Ideas You’ll Want To Try Tonight
#082 Who says you need a dungeon or hours of planning for a night you’ll never forget?🎁 Want step-by-step worksheets and real scene examples to put these ideas into action? Check out our “Scene Creation Mastery” (only $9!) at https://domsubliving.com/scene-creation-mastery/In this episode we're sharing 5 simple and powerful BDSM scene ideas you can use tonight—no fancy gear or prep required. From voice-only command scenes and sensory deprivation with household items, to secret service rituals, playful punishment games, and emotional restraint with praise, you’ll find inspiration for any dynamic. Plus, don’t miss the 5-minute scene challenge! Ready to make your night unforgettable?➡️ Scene Creation Mastery course (only $9 right now!): https://domsubliving.com/scene-creation-mastery/➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/082
#081 Poly and kinky? It’s not as easy as people think.❤️ Download the free BDSM Relationship Structure Guide at https://domsubliving.com/guideWe're sharing 5 essential rules for making BDSM and polyamory work—without the drama. Learn how to define power structures, avoid jealousy, handle communication across partners, and balance multiple D/s roles. With real stories, clear strategies, and hard truths, this is your roadmap to healthy, multi-dynamic relationships.➡️ Access the free Resource Library: https://domsubliving.com/free➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/081
Apr 14, 2025
AI in BDSM: Can a Robot Really Be Your Sub?
#080 Would you ever take orders from an AI Dom or command an AI sub?🎯 Want to build real D/s dynamics instead of relying on AI? Grab my free BDSM Scene Template at domsubliving.com/scene!It might sound wild, but AI is creeping into BDSM faster than you'd think. We're breaking down how people are using AI for training, control, and even aftercare—plus where it all falls short. From AI subs with no real surrender to AI Doms missing true intuition, we're diving into the future (and risks) of tech in kink.➡️ Free scene template: https://domsubliving.com/scene➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/080
#079 Who's got it tougher in a D/s dynamic, Dominants or submissives?🔥 Ready to level up your Dom/sub game? Check out https://domsubtraining.comWe're tackling this hot topic, and it might just surprise you. We're getting into the nitty-gritty, highlighting the weight on a Dom's shoulders—like planning and managing emotions—and the trust and mental hurdles subs navigate. Whether you're leading or letting go, there's a lot to consider! Got an opinion? Tune in and join the friendly debate.➡️ Join the Dom Sub Training course: https://domsubtraining.com➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/079
Mar 31, 2025
How to Be a More Confident Dominant
#078 If you don’t trust your own Dominance, your submissive won’t either.🚀 Get your free How to Be a Good Dom Quick Start Guide at https://domsubliving.com/domConfidence isn’t about being loud or forceful—it’s about presence, control, and certainty. In this episode, you’ll learn how to command attention without overcompensating, use body language to reinforce your authority, and lead in a way that makes your submissive feel safe, secure, and deeply connected to you.➡️ Free Dominant Quick Start guide: https://domsubliving.com/dom➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/078
Mar 24, 2025
50 Game-Changing BDSM Tips in 15 Minutes
#077 After 10 years of experience in the BDSM lifestyle—teaching, coaching, and living it 24/7—here are 50 game-changing BDSM tips in just 15 minutes!Want to go deeper with me on BDSM and D/s dynamics? Check out my free resources to enhance your journey: https://domsubliving.com/freeWhether you’re new to the scene or a seasoned kinkster, these insights will help you navigate power exchange, play, communication, and more. Hopefully, at least one of these tips will be a game changer for you!➡️ Access the free Resource Library: https://domsubliving.com/free➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/077
#076 Is your bondage routine feeling a bit stale? By the end of this episode, you'll be itching to try something new.👉 Snag a free ticket to the next summit at https://domsubdynamics.com/Alesandra and Jay dive into the world of bondage from last year's Dom/Sub Dynamics Summit. They chat about everything from ropes and cuffs to the psychological side of things like power play. Whether you're new to bondage or a seasoned pro, there's something here for everyone. Plus, learn how bondage can bring you closer and boost your dynamic. Listen now and transform your BDSM journey!➡️ Dom/sub Dynamics Virtual Summit: https://domsubdynamics.com/
Mar 10, 2025
10 Most Popular Kinks (Are Yours on the List?)
#075 Think your kink is too weird or too basic? Spoiler: It's probably more common than you think!✅ Download your free checklist of over 50 different kinks at https://domsubliving.com/checklist today!We're uncovering the top 10 kinks that captivate and connect people worldwide. From sensation play to intense power exchanges, we dive deep into what makes these kinks so popular. We also explore role-based dynamics like DD/lg and the broad world of BDSM. Whether you're new to the scene or a seasoned explorer, there's inspiration and insight for everyone. Get ready to discover your next favorite kink!➡️ Free checklist of over 50 different kinks: https://domsubliving.com/checklist➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/075
#074 Discover game-changing sensation play techniques!🔥 Read a real-life sensation play scene in action: https://domsubliving.com/sceneEver wondered how to make your BDSM scenes 10 times more intense? Spoiler: it's not about hitting harder or using fancier toys. Dive into this episode where we reveal how sensation play can transform your experiences! Explore contrasting sensations, the magic of slowing down, and creative tools like frozen grapes. Plus, uncover the unexpected power of breath, voice, and sensory deprivation in your play. Get ready to upgrade your BDSM scenes!➡️ Free real-life scene: https://domsubliving.com/scene➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/074
#073 Are you guilty of these biggest BDSM blunders? You're not alone!💪 Master the Dom/sub lifesyle: https://domsubliving.com/freeWe're revealing the surprises and challenges we encountered when we thought we had it all figured out. Worried you might mess up on your BDSM journey? Tune in now to avoid these common missteps and navigate your dynamic with confidence!➡️ Access the free Resource Library: https://domsubliving.com/free➡️ Show notes and more: https://domsubliving.com/073