The Suffering Podcast

John Sullivan was born January 1, 1960 and was raised on the tough streets of Yorkville on the East Side of NYC.  His father was killed when he was 2 years old his Mother left his sister and John to be raised by his Grandmother.  Raising a young child was tough in that neighborhood and John’s Grandmother did her best until the streets got the best of him.John found himself getting into trouble frequently and eventually ended up in some of the toughest prisons on the east coast.  His reputation in the neighborhood followed John for many years in the 70’s and 80’s until he was able to turn his life around and find strength in helping others stay clean and out of trouble.Find The Suffering PodcastThe Suffering Podcast InstagramKevin Donaldson InstagramMike Failace InstagramBuzzsproutApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookTikTokYouTubeThe Suffering Podcast FamilyDented Development ProjectToyota of HackensackBella Dama CigarsHackensack Brewing Company - Peace, Love, BeerManscapedSupport the showThe Suffering Podcast Instagram Kevin Donaldson Instagram TikTok YouTube

Gene Hauburger grew up, and raised his family, in Orangeburg NY located in Rockland County. He married his wife, Noreen O’Shea, in 1993. Gene worked as a Supreme Court Officer for 31 years and retired in 2014. He has two daughters, Amanda and Kelly and a son, Jimmy, who was tragically lost to suicide at the age of 17 after being bullied and cyber bullied. After Jimmy’s passing in 2015, family and friends organized the Jimmy Hauburger Memorial Foundation (Jimmyhauburgermemorialfoundation.org)whose mission is:To support programs that increase awareness of teen issues such as Bullying, emotional distress and teen suicide. It is our hope that the foundation saves lives, and by sharing Jimmy’s story, we know that it already has. In 2020 Gene moved to Lake George in the Adirondacks, with his wife following in 2022, for a slower and more peaceful way of life.In Lynn Cluess Manzione’s career, she has explored multiple genres to bring attention to social issues through storytelling. As a photographer she has spent over thirty-five years capturing moments, events, careers, and the works of non-profit organizations across the globe.As an author her work has included two books; A Wondrous Journey- A small book with big lessons, and, When The World Shut Down- A community time capsule of the 2020 pandemic. Lynn most recently wrote and produced the documentary, Addressed To You From Jimmy, to bring the topic of bullying and suicide to the public's much needed attention. Addressed To You From Jimmy has been a feature presentation at The New York State Psychological Association Conference 2021, and The American Counseling Association Conference 2022.It is currently showing at various film festivals.Jimmy Hauburger Memorial FoundationFind The Suffering PodcastThe Suffering Podcast InstagramKevin Donaldson InstagramMike Failace InstagramBuzzsproutApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookTikTokYouTubeThe Suffering Podcast FamilyDented Development ProjectToyota of HackensackBella Dama CigarsHackensack Brewing Company - Peace, Love, BeerManscapedSupport the showThe Suffering Podcast Instagram Kevin Donaldson Instagram TikTok YouTube

Mark Hettinger Jr (Firefighter, EMT, Fire, Inspector, Arson Investigator, Firearms Instructor, ECT.) is a highly decorated first responder with over 20+ years of experience with numerous Awards, comondations and citations for his work and life-saving efforts. When not saving or protecting lives, he's teaching other people how to, as an educator.Born the oldest of three boys, and coming to terms with his own sexuality at a very young age struggled his way through his coming of age and his fashion due to his identity. identifies as a gay male.Mark is also an advocate for the LGBTQ+ community serving on the Bergen County LGBTQ advisory committee for the county executive as well as chairman  of GLSEN NNJ among other organizations and agencies.Ashley Marie, who has been a first responder for the past 13 years, has faced many battles to discover who she truly is. She spent the first 20+ years denying who she was and struggled with anxiety, depression, and suicidal ideations. Boxing up all of these emotions led her to full-blown addiction. Ashley, who identifies as a Trans Woman, was born a male and struggled with her gender identity for years. In 2016 she hit rock bottom and became determined to turn her life around. Ashley is now an advocate for both the LGBTQ+ and Recovery communities. What binds these two remarkable individuals together, they are brother and sister.  Family Bonds are strong even amongst unusual circumstances. Find MarkInstagramFind AshleyFacebookFind The Suffering PodcastThe Suffering Podcast InstagramKevin Donaldson InstagramMike Failace InstagramBuzzsproutApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookTikTokYouTubeThe Suffering Podcast FamilyDented Development ProjectToyota of HackensackBella Dama CigarsHackensack Brewing Company - Peace, Love, BeerManscapedSupport the showThe Suffering Podcast Instagram Kevin Donaldson Instagram TikTok YouTube

Dennis Benigno is the founder and CEO of Street Cop Training and began formal police instruction in 2012.  His law enforcement career began in 2001 at 19 years of age as an NJ Corrections Officer. In 2004, Benigno became a police officer with the US Park Police Dept. in Washington, DC, and in 2005 moved over to the position of a police officer in one of NJ’s largest municipalities.  He has received multiple awards including but not limited to Lifesaving, Meritorious Service, Mayor’s Award for Excellence in Public Service, Several Letters of Recognition, Leadership awards, and Certificates of Appreciation from several law enforcement organizations.  As a police officer, Benigno has affected over 1,500 arrests and has conducted well over 10,000 motor vehicle stops.  He now leads one of the fastest-growing LEO education companies in the country.Dennis is recognized as not only an instructor but as a thought leader and influencer in modern-day policing.  His outspoken vision of changing law enforcement for the better has struck the hearts of over 500,000 followers on social media platforms alone.  He has now partnered with several non-profits and works to provide no-cost support to several families and members of the law enforcement community.Find Street Cop TrainingWebsiteInstagramFacebookTikTokStreet Cop Training PodcastYouTubeInstagramFind The Suffering PodcastThe Suffering Podcast InstagramKevin Donaldson InstagramMike Failace InstagramBuzzsproutApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookTikTokYouTubeThe Suffering Podcast FamilyDented Development ProjectToyota of HackensackBella Dama CigarsHackensack Brewing Company - Peace, Love, BeerManscapedSupport the showThe Suffering Podcast Instagram Kevin Donaldson Instagram TikTok YouTube

Chance meetings are never by chance.  Lavana Wilson and Tashiann Yasmine are two strong and spirited women who empower their community in all the positive ways possible.  Together they create to change the face of empowerment in the face of adversity through love and life’s purpose.Lavana (Slayer V) Wilson is a Mom, YouTube Podcaster, creative director, lifestyle blogger, influencer, community activist, motivational speaker, life coach and fashion expert whom was born and raised in the city of Paterson, NJ. Although growing up in an impoverished environment, Lavana states that the love and care provided by both her parents and her faith in God has enabled her to overcome all obstacles. Present day, Lavana shares that by leading in LOVE and using the power of her voice to entertain, educate, and elevate the masses (one city at a time) she will be fulfilling her life’s mission to create “Generational Wealth and World Peace”. Tashiann Yasmine is a Paterson, NJ raised (Jamaican descendant) visionary creative. She’s a multitalented artist whom refers to herself as one of God's employees. Her niche is the ability, in art form, to display forward-thinking creativity across all social media platforms whilst her passion is to inspire and encourage all people to be their true, authentic selves and to seek out their true LIFE PURPOSE. Tashiann’s company "Girl Strike" stands as a staple through the teachings of hand beading. She shares that each custom made piece worn is a reminder to celebrate individuality through fashion and culture.Find Lavana and TashiannLavanaWebsite: WWW.SLAYERV.COMYouTube: Slayer V Podcast / Slayer V TVIG: @slayerv_FB: Laana WilsonTiktok: @slayervTashiannIG: @tashyasmineYouTube:  Tashiann YasmineFind The Suffering PodcastThe Suffering Podcast InstagramKevin Donaldson InstagramMike Failace InstagramApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookTikTokYouTubeThe Suffering Podcast FamilyToyota of HackensackBella Dama CigarsManscapedSupport the showThe Suffering Podcast Instagram Kevin Donaldson Instagram TikTok YouTube

Bobby Crudele comes from a family that has deep roots in Jersey City and Belleville and as a kid moved to North Arlington. After living in Jersey City for a decade as an adult, Bobby met his wife Kara and eventually bought a house in North Arlington where he currently resides and raises his 3 children. Bobby has served honorably as a Sergeant in the North Arlington Police department and will finish his career with distinction this year.   His deep love of sports rose out of I growing up on the playground, spending most of his entire youth playing some sport every day continuing into adulthood.   It didn’t matter if it's Football, Basketball, or Softball, if there was an adult league Bobby played and did it like it was his job all because his love for the games. At some point that love turned into a passion to coach. Bobby started coaching baseball in Belleville in the 1990s, followed by some basketball in the early 2000s. But over the past 15 years Bobby became the president of boys recreation and travel basketball and the VP of The junior Vikings football program as well as a defensive backs coach , running backs coach and later defensive coordinator for the senior level team. Currently he holds the position of president of the junior Vikings football program. Bobby has collaborated with some of the best coaches in North Jersey HS football and attended multiple coaching clinics. Bobby’s motto has always been, “ I may not be the most knowledgeable coach out there but I’ll never be out worked” that attitude has defined his coaching style and served his players well.Find Bobby CrudeleInstagramFacebookTwitterFind The Suffering PodcastThe Suffering Podcast InstagramKevin Donaldson InstagramMike Failace InstagramBuzzsproutApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookTikTokYouTubeThe Suffering Podcast FamilyDented Development ProjectToyota of HackensackBella Dama CigarsHackensack Brewing Company - Peace, Love, BeerManscapedSupport the showThe Suffering Podcast Instagram Kevin Donaldson Instagram TikTok YouTube

Part 2Mike Arena began his law enforcement career in 2011 at 19 years of age starting out as a Special Law Enforcement Officer with the Point Pleasant Beach Police Department. He was then hired by The New Jersey Department of Corrections and became a Corrections Officer and worked in multiple prisons throughout the state. After a few years of working in corrections, Mike became a police officer with Prince George’s County Police Department located in Maryland. In 2017, he transferred back to New Jersey where he worked as a Police Officer with the Stockton University Police Department. During that time, Mike was elected to Join the Atlantic County New Jersey Regional S.W.A.T Team. After seeking advancement, Mike made his final transfer over to the Ventnor City Police Department. While serving the citizens of Ventnor City, Mike was unfortunately involved in a fatal officer-involved shooting. Over his 10-year career, Mike has received multiple awards and commendations including The New Jersey Meritorious Service Valor Award, Life Saving award, and several letters of recognition and of appreciation from several law enforcement organizations. After being involved in numerous critical incidents over his 10 plus year career, Mike has now made it his mission to help officers struggling with Trauma/PTSD get the help they need and deserve. Find Mike ArenaFacebookInstagramOfficer Support InitiativeFind The Suffering PodcastThe Suffering Podcast InstagramKevin Donaldson InstagramMike Failace InstagramBuzzsproutApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookTikTokYouTubeThe Suffering Podcast FamilyDented Development ProjectToyota of HackensackBella Dama CigarsHackensack Brewing Company - Peace, Love, BeerManscapedSupport the showThe Suffering Podcast Instagram Kevin Donaldson Instagram TikTok YouTube

Part 1Mike Arena began his law enforcement career in 2011 at 19 years of age starting out as a Special Law Enforcement Officer with the Point Pleasant Beach Police Department. He was then hired by The New Jersey Department of Corrections and became a Corrections Officer and worked in multiple prisons throughout the state. After a few years of working in corrections, Mike became a police officer with Prince George’s County Police Department located in Maryland. In 2017, he transferred back to New Jersey where he worked as a Police Officer with the Stockton University Police Department. During that time, Mike was elected to Join the Atlantic County New Jersey Regional S.W.A.T Team. After seeking advancement, Mike made his final transfer over to the Ventnor City Police Department. While serving the citizens of Ventnor City, Mike was unfortunately involved in a fatal officer-involved shooting. Over his 10-year career, Mike has received multiple awards and commendations including The New Jersey Meritorious Service Valor Award, Life Saving award, and several letters of recognition and of appreciation from several law enforcement organizations. After being involved in numerous critical incidents over his 10 plus year career, Mike has now made it his mission to help officers struggling with Trauma/PTSD get the help they need and deserve. Find Mike ArenaFacebookInstagramOfficer Support Initiative Find The Suffering PodcastThe Suffering Podcast InstagramKevin Donaldson InstagramMike Failace InstagramBuzzsproutApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookTikTokYouTubeThe Suffering Podcast FamilyDented Development ProjectToyota of HackensackBella Dama CigarsHackensack Brewing Company - Peace, Love, BeerManscapedSupport the showThe Suffering Podcast Instagram Kevin Donaldson Instagram TikTok YouTube

Jose L. Medina is currently a 27-year veteran and leader of Law Enforcement and 20 year owner of Awareness Protective consultants, doing business as Team APC-Medina Tactical Dynamics. Jose has an extensive background in training and consulting for various groups such as Law Enforcement, Military, School Educators, and Corporate Industries. Jose Medina started his consulting firm when he saw the need for both the Police and Civilian side organizations requiring more advanced education in the field of tactical and situational awareness. Months after the 1999 Columbine shooting, he was deemed the task of forming and creating his departments Emergency Services Unit. The focus was primarily geared towards active shooter response and eventually led into area of high risk warrant service operations conducting investigations with local, county, state and federal authorities in vanous areas such as intelligence gathering for homeland attacks on our country, weapons and drug trafficking, gang investigations and threat assessment work with the private industry. One of his many important projects was his development of the first ever Active Shooter Emergency Response Plan (ASERP) for the Port Authority POlice Y/. focusing on threat assessment and responses to the tri-state international airport Find Jose and Team APCFacebookInstagramTikTokWebsiteYouTube  Find The Suffering PodcastThe Suffering Podcast InstagramKevin Donaldson InstagramMike Failace InstagramBuzzsproutApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookTikTokYouTubeThe Suffering Podcast FamilyDented Development ProjectToyota of HackensackBella Dama CigarsHackensack Brewing Company - Peace, Love, BeerManscapedSupport the showThe Suffering Podcast Instagram Kevin Donaldson Instagram TikTok YouTube

Tammie Starnes has taken a journey with multiple traumas and found a new direction on healing.  Finding an avenue of healing through the Harmonic Egg therapy.  When hope was waining for her 11 year old daughter to come out of her shell, Tammie was out of options and sought help in any place that was offered.  Almost non-verbal, a new therapy method was found in the Harmonic Egg Vibration healing.  The results were staggering and almost immediate leading a new path in Tammies life showing the possibilities.Through her Abundant healing center, Tammie take these holistic healing to a new level to bring peace to her clients.  Either through Massage, Reiki, Salt therapy, Yoga and others, this center is dedicated to bringing peace to a life out of options.Find TammieAbundant Healinghttps://www.abundanthealingnj.com/Facebookhttps://www.facebook.com/AbundantHealingNJInstagramhttps://www.instagram.com/abundanthealingnj/Find The Suffering Podcast The Suffering Podcast InstagramKevin Donaldson InstagramMike Failace InstagramBuzzsproutApple PodcastSpotifyFacebookTikTokYouTubeThe Suffering Podcast FamilyDented Development ProjectToyota of HackensackBella Dama CigarsHackensack Brewing Company - Peace, Love, BeerManscapedSupport the showThe Suffering Podcast Instagram Kevin Donaldson Instagram TikTok YouTube